My husband just doesn't seem to care what I do or say, is he just not interested in me any more? I'm I not doing something right? What should I do?
2006-09-26 07:24:48 · 13 answers · asked by r_montoya81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes we get tired. Work, bills, life, and commuting.
Tell him you want to sit down and talk. turn everything off and have a heart to heart. ask him if you are meeting his expectations and vice versa.
COMMUNICATION is key, good luck
2006-09-26 07:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he's cheating on you, he's disengaged and that's not a good place to be at if it's ongoing. Not knowing the situation (nevermind my lack of any sort of qualifications) it's difficult to make any sort of assessment. You need to communicate, and if you're believers then I encourage you to discuss this with your pastor.
I'm not here to proselytize, but I can't think of a better refresher on marriage than a few different passages from the Bible.
I'll put a couple quotes here, and you can follow the full links below if you want. Best regards.
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." - 1 Corinthians 7:3-5
"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." - Ephesians 5:21
2006-09-26 07:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Str8ShootR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not mean he is cheating, but it probably does mean that he is no longer challenged and the mystery is gone for him. The chase is a huge part of the thrill for the guy. Work on becoming mysterious again, make him have to work to get naked with you, don't just give in, but act like you did the first time he wanted some. Make him swoon you again, don't be so available for him all the time...
2006-09-26 07:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A researcher at Stanford stumbled on that when adult men get although they have concentrated on - you, marriage, etc - area of their mind shuts down. area of that has to do with sex. no longer sex many times, merely sex with you. To him you've change into invisible. There are couple of minutes period innovations, yet you should save replacing issues each and every time you want to do something. there's a lengthy time period answer, yet lots of the human beings in this communicate board don't like those innovations.
2016-12-02 02:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, he could very well be stressed out or just caught up in dealing with the responsibilities that life throws our way. he may also be thinking the same about you. might you both be waiting on the other to put forth more effort ? try making the first move, relieving stress, etc.
2006-09-26 07:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry to say, yes it probably does mean he is cheating.
Men have difficulty in pretending interest if their thoughts are elsewhere. You could pay for a private investigator to find out how he is spending his time or ask him out right.
2006-09-26 07:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know stress , work , and whatever can come my way but if my lady turns me on, she turns me on and nothing can replace that, so in ur case i think his eyes have been caught by someone else, cuz i don't believe a man should ever take his eyes off his baby,,,no matter what life throws cuz shes his best in life, see what im saying,,,the wife is no.1 always,,,he has planted his eyes elsewhere but don't worry he's gonna have to explain that too, cuz no one rides for free,,ya feelin me??????
2006-09-26 09:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by tone284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now its time 2 pay attention 2 his physical needs , it is a known fact that women tend 2 shy away from "freaky" behavior because a loving respectable wife would never do that. B.S. what u wont do know matter how much u love him someone else will and he doesnt have 2 kiss them in the mouth and tell them that he loves them, STEP YOUR GAME UP. PAY ATTENTION 2 WHAT HE WANTS MORE IMPROTANTLY 2 WHAT HE NEEDS.
2006-09-26 07:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop being so insecure for one, second would be talk to him about it. you gotta have good communication skills in every relationship or it will never work. but besides that i would put my money on the cheating, guys are scared to be alone. once that fear is gone (becuase he has someone else) they can act like *******.
2006-09-26 07:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he showing interest in other things? if not than maybe he has a case of depression
2006-09-26 07:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by XeRoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋