Well, I have this bf cheat on me.. Well, i juz want to keep him as mine. Tell me, what's in your mind guys,, how to make him feel that i'm the one he has to choose. Do I have to ignore him, and show him that i don't need him, so I'd be looked tough so that he found misteries in me.. Or should I be nice to him, make him feel guilty, then he'll be back.. Tell me, tell me, tell me! ! What makes you comeback to your woman?
2006-09-26 06:51:34 · 16 answers · asked by Happy_hours 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I'm not a guy.
BUT, I can 100% honestly tell you that if he cheated on you once, he will cheat on you again.
If I were you, I'd move on.
He can't be trusted.
But, if you insist on keeping him around, I would try BOTH.
Be mysterious and show very little interest, AND be nice.
Sounds odd, right?
If he comes to talk to you, don't seem too excited.
Act kinda shy or as if you don't care.
Sometimes, if he talks to you, be nice and cheerful and happy.
it will keep him wondering if you're interested or not.
Eventually, he will want to know what's up, and start asking you questions.
This is when you need to make him feel guilty.
But as I said before, if he cheated on you once, he WILL do it again.
Yeah, he'll promise he wont.
Yeah, his friends will stick up for him.
But eventually, you'll catch him doing it again.
I promise.
2006-09-26 07:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jalena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if he cheated on you, you should throw him away! You deserve better than that! Why would you want to be with him if he has done such a terrible thing to you?!
If you are dead-set on trying to work things out, then he probably cheated for a reason. He found somehting in someone else that you don't, or won't do. You will have to find out what this is, and then be willing to do this, whatever it is for him.
You will have to talk to him and get him to be very honest. Don't be passive and agree to every little thing he says and does, but be confident and strong and make it seem as tho you are 'giving' him something.
I'm opposed to you trying to work this out because I think you're setting yourselrf up to be hurt again, but that is up to you sweety.
Good luck, and I hope you finds your peace in all this.
2006-09-26 07:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy and what he wants. And what he wants might be "something new".
If that's the case, then you would need to present him with something new. Make a major change to yourself.
You have to decide whether he's keepable. If he's prowling for new girls, he's not ready to settle down with just one. Unless you can exert some sort of hold over his attention, he's going to continue to shop around.
It's possible you can make yourself so attractive, exciting or alluring as to keep him riveted to you. But if he's the sort to stray, I suspect he'll continue to stray.
2006-09-26 06:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I'm sure you must be young and still learning about yourself. Situations like this is just one more learning experience in your life to help you understand who you are. Just don't try to hard and more important is he worth all this worry. I'm sure you will meet someone who will have eyes just for you. Good LUCK
2006-09-26 06:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some don't come back, and those that do aren't worth your time anyway, move on and find a better boyfriend.
2006-09-26 06:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are bisexual, and have hot, bisexual friends. Also, tell him he doesn't have to cheat because you want to join in next time. Guys like this kind of stuff.
2006-09-26 06:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not a guy...obviously....but i have always gone by this motto "once a cheater always a cheater" & boy is it true....oh there is this song that gave me ideas.... just in case....its called before he cheats by carrie underwood...i dont know if you listen to country but this song kicks ***
2006-09-26 06:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably make him feel bad, or otherwise he's not worth your time. He makes us other guys look bad!
2006-09-26 06:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by your_coolaid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody that cheats should be given a second chance, especially boyfriends
2006-09-26 06:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, be real nice to him, tell him you love him, and ALWAYS be good to him, do things for him. That will show him that you are the one for him.
2006-09-26 06:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋