Cos this guy means trouble! She also told me that after he left her...she continously took panadols with whisky...Now...to top it all off..She's on drugs...Which she has been on..for almost a year now!Her arms ar full of bloody scratches!PLEASE how can i get some sense into her and make her stop it??
2006-09-26 06:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by GucciEnvyMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1-800-DONTCUT Help for "cutters"
http://usminc.org/links.html
2006-09-28 04:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats sad your friend is hurting badly and she doesnt know how to handle it or deal with it. The best thing for you to do is to talk to her relatives or a close friend and talk her into going to counseling, this may seem like shes is only cutting herself to catch attention but shes actually asking for help, get her to go somewhere fast next time she may cut deeper and things can get more complicated, help your friend now that there is still time. God Bless you and your friend!
2006-09-26 13:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Juliet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents, someone at school, just someone that can get her the help she needs. This cant continue and if it does then something really bad will happen to her.
2006-09-26 13:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is under 18 you need to go to her parents or a trusted adult, like the school counselor. if she is over 18 you need to talk to her until she gets help. It sounds like your friend is depressed and needs counseling. You need to get her help now before it gets worse...and it will get worse if she doesn't seek help!
2006-09-26 13:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Moosha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you care a lot about your friend, so you've got to get her some help, even if it feels like you're "telling on her." Imagine how you'll feel if she ends up killing herself! You've got to tell someone who can intervene and get her into treatment. Don't wait!
2006-09-26 13:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hurting and doesn't know how to deal with it. Try to get her to talk to a Counselor.
2006-09-26 13:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a therapist. with professional counselling and proper medication iam sure she will recover. all the best
2006-09-26 13:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by jojokiki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents .. or the school counselor immdeiatley... think of it as a sickness... you would help a friend that is sick by telling her loved ones.. this is no different
2006-09-26 14:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by caligrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY G/F USETA CUT HER ARMS WITH SCISSORS WHEN I WOULDNT CALL HER OR SHE THOUGHT I WAS WITH ANOTHA GURL ....AND WHEN EVER WE WOULD GO OUT TO PARTY'S WHEN SHE WOULD GET MAD FOR NO REASON SHE WOULD GO OFF AND HIDE IN A CLOSET AND CUT HERSELF.........I TOLD BABY I LUV ..U DONT NEED TO CUT URSELF TO GET MY ATTENTTION ...AND I JUST HELD HER IN MY ARMS 1 NIGHT AFTER SHE HID THE HOLE PARTY AND MANGLED HER ARMS ....I TOLD HER I LUVED HER ...AND TO MY KNOWLEDGE SHE NEVER DID IT AGAIN ....................................
2006-09-26 13:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try and get her some "Professional" help, you cant do it alone
2006-09-26 13:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by hermosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋