2006-09-26 06:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by u69me17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If that's what you want you just have to do it. She'll get over it.
2006-09-26 06:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want a divorce then it will eventually happen. The sooner the better so that both of you can get on with your lives. Once you leave, the guilt will turn to anger and things will probably get pretty nasty. But as the saying goes... time heals all wounds. If there are children involved I suggest getting them into counseling as soon as possible.
2006-09-26 13:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really want a divorce - sounds like you're using the guilt you feel as a reason not to go through with it. Are you scared?
If you don't love her, you must be honest and tell her. Whatever is going on must be aired. Then simply go from there - even if that means divorce.
2006-09-26 13:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start bringing home random women every once in awhile. Make sure you are really drunk. Ask your wife to join in. If she won't, throw her out of the bedroom and lock the door. Before your wife wakes up the next morning, throw the random girl out, then go back to bed. When your wife complains, tell her you don't remember that happening. Always leave the toilet seat up, and don't flush after you take a dump. Use her expensive clothes to check your oil and clean your car. After work, pop in a raunchy porno and turn it up really loud. Don't let her turn it off. Pretty soon, she won't care if you want to leave.
2006-09-26 13:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce isn't easy on anyone but if you feel that it's the best decision for yourself, then I would try to make your wife understand this. Although she will get hurt, by you letting her make you feel guilty, it only adds to the pain, stress,effort and loss of time for both of you. Overall, you got to do what you feel is right and what makes you happy and eventually time will heal your wife's wound. Good Luck to you!!!
2006-09-26 13:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what your heart tells you to do. Maybe she still loves you and doesn't want the marriage to end, but, if your feelings are gone for her, then you need to go ahead and divorce her. My ex-husband done the same thing to me. Everytime I wanted to walk out, he would make me feel so guilty and I ended up staying and wasting alot of years that I could of been happy. It is hard when you have to walk off and you know the other person is hurting by what you are doing, but you have to live your life for yourself and make YOU happy.........good luck
2006-09-26 13:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a matter of time. The more you play this game, the more she'll be convinced that there's a chance the relationship will recover. Do the right thing and leave. You're only prolonging it and making things worse.
2006-09-26 13:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? I didn't ask my ex-husband's opinion and I surely didn't allow him to put a guilty complex on the matter. If you really want a divorce, then go.
2006-09-26 13:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have guilt, you might have done something bad. If you did what you had to do during your marriage and it just didn't work out you shouldn't have any guilt. Go ahead with your life.
2006-09-26 13:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by cuteboymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty. Why did you get married in the first place?
2006-09-26 13:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
divorce is never pretty, it's full of hurt feelings. she'll get over it eventually. no one ever wins.
2006-09-26 13:43:32 · answer #11 · answered by small town gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋