My friends marriage ended in divorce after 5 years. Her husband never did say his reason for wanting it to end just said it had nothing to do with another woman or nothing like that. He then joined the marines. He called her 7 months later begged her to take him back. She ended up marrying him again, sold her house, gave away her three dogs she had for years cause he said she couldn't bring them quit her job of 5 years and moved to california where he's stationed. 2 weeks later he tells her he decided he didn't want to be married and told her to go back home. Ofcourse he helped her spend the money she made from selling her house before he told her to leave. Family helped get her back home. What do you thinks up with this?
2006-09-26 06:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's not ready for marriage or commitment. Just wanted a plaything to suit his needs. Got tired, joined the marines, realized he was lonely and horny again, so called his old reliable plaything who obviously loves him. Then quickly got over it again after he got what he wanted, sex & cash/stuff.
She needs to stay FAR away from this dude. We aren't all that way, honey.
2006-09-26 06:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is called a "crook" in the lowest forms! Some people, and not necessarily men, look for financial opportunities (and make a career of this!) by scamming people out of their money in ANY capacity!! Yes, they will marry, lie, cheat, etc. and these people look for those who lack self esteem, are lonely, and has something they want, i.e. money, a way into the country and citizenship, power, etc. Signed: Been there, done that!
2006-09-26 06:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
User, abuser, jiggalo, con-artist, sociopath- or at least some of the disorder. Unfortunately, these kind of people are so destructive to the people around them. Best of luck to your friend.
Antisocial personality disorder: A pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others and inability or unwillingness to conform to what are considered to be the norms of society.
The disorder involves a history of chronic antisocial behavior that begins before the age of 15 and continues into adulthood. The disorder is manifested by a pattern of irresponsible and antisocial behavior as indicated by academic failure, poor job performance, illegal activities, recklessness, and impulsive behavior. Symptoms may include dysphoria, an inability to tolerate boredom, feeling victimized, and a diminished capacity for intimacy.
Antisocial personality disorder, also known as psychopathic personality or sociopathic personality often brings a person into conflict with society as a consequence of a pattern of behavior that is amoral and unethical. Complications that might arise from having this disorder include: frequent imprisonment for unlawful behavior, alcoholism and drug abuse.
Samson may, it is thought, have had antisocial personality disorder. The Bible tells of his lies to his parents, his cruelty to animals, his torching the Philistine fields, his frequent brawls, and his unremitting bragging after killing a thousand men, actions fitting the diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder. A person with antisocial personality disorder was once called a sociopath
2006-09-26 06:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did that on purpose to play with her feelings and really i don't know if i am wrong in this is that he promised her something under fraud and that can be listed as a crime and she needs to get a lawyer and see. And don't ever let him called again and i would get a restraining order on him so quick and have him arrested if he called or showed up at the door step.
2006-09-26 06:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk, guys like that are well, in todays slang gold diggers. I'm sorry your friend had to go through that and the man who did that to her should be very severly beaten by his drill sergant... (sorry about spelling). I'm glad she got back on her feet. Good luck to her in the future.
2006-09-26 06:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend was a fool for marrying him again, maybe this time when he calls again she will hang up!~
I think the guy is an immature asswad
2006-09-26 06:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was going through an identity crisis
2006-09-26 06:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that we women give our hearts to easily sometimes--and so we learn a lot of hard lessons--she should just go on with her life--what is interesting is that i really think he might try to get back into her life again-----a part of him that cannot let her go---however this girl should have learned her lesson now shouldnt she:)
2006-09-26 06:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment phobic loser......your friend is lucky she made her escape now and didn't have to stay with him any longer..
2006-09-26 06:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by tori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants the money.. and he was lonely
2006-09-26 06:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋