you see some nude pictures on your husband's computer files? Do you automaticaly think he's cheating on you? or do you feel it so much in your body that you want to kick the **** out of him? We both were into that kind of things, but it all changed to where we both agreed not to look at those kind of things if we both weren't looking at it together. I am so pissed off at him. He also tries to turn the tables on me saying and accussing me of having things on my emails or files on my log in screen. He's so full of it. What should I do, we still are pissed off at each other and not speaking to each other either.
2006-09-26 06:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by blu2u1982 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Respect his privacy.
2006-09-26 06:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do You Two Not Know How To COMMUNICATE? Sit Down When The Two Of You Are Calm And In A Good Place Mentally, And Discuss The Issues You Both Have Calmly And Rationally. Do Not Accuse Or Blame. Stick To Telling Him How You Feel.
If He Yells It Is His Fault And Your Conscience Can Be Clear Because You Cant Change Your feelings And No One Can Say That Your Doing Anything Wrong By expressing Them. Just Remain Caln And Keep Your Tone Pleasant
2006-09-26 06:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they pictures he has downloaded from the net and not someone that he knows personally? If that is the case figure out why you are so insecure because that is more than likely the reason why it has pissed you off so much.... I have been married for over 9 years and at first it bothered me so much that my husband had those sort of things laying around. At some point I realized that they were some seriously airbrushed pictures that in no way shape or form take the place of me. I am the one he turns to for compnionship, warmth, love, and most of all, sex. There are some times when I just can't get myself in the mood and to know that he has some pictures and not some "real" person to fulfill what he needs I am all for it!
2006-09-26 06:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
why get all defensive, sheeesh.
its just a picture. MEN ARE VISUAL creatures . I have the solution but by your tone I doubt you'll do it , anyway this is what you do. Have a friend take a nude hottie shot of you, then put it on his computer so he can look at you and no one else. If you don't want to be adventurous and exciting, let him look at his nudies.
THOSE WOMEN can't touch him, they are just pictures. I don't mean to laugh but I always find it interesting how other women react to that.
If hes hiding it then he knows you'll act psycho about it
But hey if you want to ruin your marriage over a naked pic, be my guest
2006-09-26 07:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he hasn't been cured of the addiction yet. Tell him how it made you feel, but forgive him and help him understand where you're coming from and that you want him to stop that. Don't judge him, but do begin to calm down and move on. You've had a right to be angry, now start to make up with understanding and a little tough love. After the tough love, try a little tenderness Mamma.
2006-09-26 06:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to delete the pictures from his computer and end the feud. Go away for a week or so until he has fixed the problem. Just tell you will not accept pictures like that any more or you or gone.
2006-09-26 06:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dunno, I tend to feel that what my husband has on his computer is none of my business, same goes for what I have on mine. We just don't snoop around in each other's lives. And so what if he wanted to look at nudie pics every once in a while. As long as he's not compulsive about it, I wouldn't care.
2006-09-26 07:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't blame you for being upset, because I would be too. What I do suggest is that you slip into something sexy and try to forget about the situation and just remind him why he is with you by giving him some hot sex. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-26 06:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't be mad if you let him do it before, wether he's looking at them with you or without you he's still getting the same kind of kick out of watching them, would you feel better if he cheats on you only when your watching too?
2006-09-26 06:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Rambo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should wait for a good reason to get mad at him I wish that's all I had to be pissed off at my wife for
2006-09-26 06:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋