This girl in my class keeps calling me a neek (geek), and she is so dumb and gets level 1s and 2s in tests!!!
What should i do!!
is it because im quiet??
2006-09-26 06:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Jpegg 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Stand up for yourself. Show her that your not afraid of her. The next time she calls you a name laugh in her face. She's only jealous of you. You should be proud of that, don't be afraid of who you are!
2006-09-26 06:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a saying I tell my kids all the time... "it /they are not in your bubble" I would just make it so she is not in your bubble.. in other words you are giving her power because you are allowing her to bother you .. if you ignore her and put an invisible bubble around you that you can imagine when she is teasing you.. and then say to yourself she is not in my bubble then she cant bother you ... and just go on with your day...
why we all let others bother us i will never understand...
ask yourself this..
will her teasing you matter one year from now?
if the answer is no .. then just ignore her and put her out of her bubble...
and it wont be a big deal in the grand scheem of things.
Blessings to you,
RiahWillow
2006-09-26 13:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea maye you let her step all over you. people love control the min you let them have it. they have power over you. but you dont have to jump up and flight back. if your quiet it wont change anything just remember mayb you are a geek thats the way people look at you. there not seeing all the geart things that you are. but just remember you might be the geek but they are the no bodys.
2006-09-26 13:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who feel that they are inadequate will often project those feelings onto others and treat them poorly. Try saying hello to her and be nice. She may be jealous that you're doing well and she's not. I don't know what level 1 and 2 are, but if you know that she's not doing well, maybe you can offer to help. If she turns you down, at least you tried.
2006-09-26 13:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by PatsyBee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming level 1s and 2s are bad...then tell her she's a dumbass. Then tell her to bow before you on her knees, and learn to like it, because she will be mopping floors when she gets out.
You might want a roll of dimes in your fist when you say that too. 1 shot and she'll get the message.
2006-09-26 13:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Iridium190 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont be quiet when shes saying those things. when i was in elementary school i had someone pikin on me and i had to stand up to her. u have to hype yourself up to get the courage to say whatever u need to say. tell her, "id rather be smart (the word is not geek) u must be jealous because you cant keep up" then be sarcastic and tell her u can tutor her if she wants
2006-09-26 13:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous. Tell her it's better to be a neek (geek) than a retard.
2006-09-26 20:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jasda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is craving attention because she isn't getting it anywhere else. Ignore her & if she looks at you, look right through her. She will eventually get tired of trying to get attention.
The R3al D3al
2006-09-26 13:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by The R3al D3al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet people always have a hard time responding to this type of intimidation. Do NOT let her know it bothers you.
2006-09-26 13:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by ginaforu5448 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i was a quiet person in school to an di got harassed... dont worry it will pass... just ignore her..what i did was just stayed calm....people will realize some day that quiet people are crazy.....believe me....people found out that i was crazy and they left me alone...she will find that out sooner or later..hope this works...
2006-09-26 14:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋