2006-09-26 06:03:39 · 33 answers · asked by MasterSplinter© 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I actually get this... Does that mean I am a complete nerd?
2006-09-26 06:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Du Hast mich? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I were single and the the guy was a nice guy and I liked him, yes I would. Whether or not he has 4 adopted children or not is beside the point....If you want to be with someone, you have to be willing to accept all the aspects of their life and they have to do the same with you. If someone doesn't like the 4 children idea, then they have no right dating that man! I have no problems with children (although some in the teenage years can be very trying!)
2006-09-26 06:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Peachz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The real question is, would you date a man with 4 children? Theres no difference. 4 children are a handful no matter where they came from. I'm one of 5 adopted kids. It would also depend on the man...
But in the end, i would say yes.
2006-09-26 06:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. As long as he can pass a drug test, a psyche test and a federal and local background check.
And just in case you think I'm going overboard, look at all the trouble we women find ourselves in because we 'gave a guy a break'.
Just because a guy has kids doesn't mean he's an angel.
I know, I've dated guys with kids. Some are nice and some are not so nice and some are good at looking nice on the surface and behaving in a very different manner when they think nobody's looking.
Having custody of children is no guarrantee the guy is nice.
2006-09-26 06:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A man with children his own or adopted makes no difference. Obviously if he has adopted children he likes them so the fact that I have 1 child myself wouldn't stop him from dating me.
2006-09-26 06:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by prmb1999 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many children a man had, adopted or biological, would never keep me from dating him. If anything, I would think someone like that probably has a lot of love to share, a good heart, and a ton of patience!
2006-09-26 06:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Personally Don't Like Baby Mama Drama, So If He Adopted & There Was No Mother Then Yes. Otherwise Not For Me.
2006-09-26 06:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No because he would not have the time to be with you. Something will always come up. Breaking dates, a lot of baggage. Kids need this. Problems in school. I need a man's total attention. I don't have any kids so I can come and go when I want to.
2006-09-26 06:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not? Do you love him for him??? Think of it this way, you will get a husband and children without gaining any weight and getting stretch marks. What a wonderful man he is and he HAS to have a great heart to do something as wonderful as that, give him a chance and his children.
2006-09-26 06:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by ☺Smiley☺ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that is a lot of responsibility to take on all at once (for you) if you don't have any children of your own yet. But if he is the man of your dreams otherwise, you should not pass him up on account of the children.
Personally, though, perhaps it's selfish, but I don't think I could do it.
2006-09-26 06:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by S&S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date is your feeling not about the children question
2006-09-26 06:13:46 · answer #11 · answered by Faisal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋