My husband & I have been apart for about 6 weeks, & now we r @ home. It was either the 7 year itch, or just jealousy on my part. Well we both got to sleep together the past four nights and twice we have just wild & crazy love making. It has been almost ten months since we've been this intimate. Are we going back on the right track and getting this marriage back to what it used to be. We do talk more, and enjoy each other company. I missed him the whole time we were apart, but now we are okay. My question is can I breath a sigh of relief that we are goin to be okay with one another and that we shouldn't take things for granted anymore. We both don't wear wedding rings and he said soon will put them back, should I plan something special for this, but I don't know when soon is.
2006-09-26 06:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not mean to dampen your spirits but something is fishy here. He probably senses you are needy and it serves his ego well. Believe me when I tell you he is not home to stay. Take care of yourself he is going to move on to greener pastures.
2006-09-27 14:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't breath just yet, 6 weeks don't seem like it is long enough to work things out. You just have to be patient and take things a day at a time. Make sure that both of you are on the same page. Talk about things that you think have went wrong. It may take weeks, it may take months, it may take years you don't know. Don't rush anything! When the time is right for you to put your ring back on you will know!
2006-09-26 13:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't breathe a sigh of relief quite yet; if only 6 weeks of separation could fix a marriage just like this. Just take each day as it comes and try to make the best out of it. Good luck.
2006-09-26 13:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, being married is hard. Do what you have to do to make sure that your marriaged is saved. Unless he's cheating on you, wearing the ring is not necessary right now. Be happy things are going great, dont think this is it, work on it everyday day...When you died..married...then you ca breath a sigh of relief.
2006-09-26 13:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would be leary of this situation....but that's me. I think once there is a separation, there probably was good reason for it and mostly people get back together because they get lonely and miss the emotions they felt for the other person. I think you should let this person go and move on to make a clean, fresh start.
2006-09-26 13:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How wonderful for you and your husband. I hope things continue to just get better and better. Try not to rush it and enjoy your renewed relationship. Best of luck!!
2006-09-26 13:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in men wearing wedding rings, but why aren't you wearing yours? Something seems a little strange in this story.
2006-09-26 13:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
time tells all. if you aren't wearing the wedding bands yet, then realize that is a RED FLAG.
2006-09-26 13:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_shy_blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not.
2006-09-26 13:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOP
2006-09-26 13:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋