Can I figure out how much time sb spents on a site or sth like that? The thing is: I don't mind, but I hate it that he might be lying to me and I just have to make sure I'm not crazy. I have studied the history on his computer and I'm just very upset because on one day all he had accessed were porns. That day we had only dial-up internet, so I don't think the computer accessed the site by itself, like he states (the cable is not always plugged in). I'm really upset, but maybe I'm not right. PLS help me with real answers and data.
2006-09-26 06:01:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Maybe U didn't get it right: I enjoy watching porns myself. The point is that he lies to me, and this is why I'm so mad. I don't hold him on a leash I just stumbled on the sites.
2006-09-26 06:08:17 · update #1
This is how I foud the sites in the first place...
2006-09-26 06:09:45 · update #2
By god, everybody has his/her little secrets. But lying to my face is sth else...by the way - where are all computer - experts when U need them?
2006-09-26 06:11:08 · update #3
AND AGAIN FOR ALL PEOPLE OUT THERE: THIS IS NOT THE RELATIONSHIP SECTION. THIS IS THE SECTION FOR COMPUTERS&INTERNET/INTERNET
2006-09-26 06:14:42 · update #4
Doubtful that the computer pulled them up on it's own unless he was looking for serial numbers or cracks for programs.
Since you already know about the history folder, you can also do a search on "key loggers" and monitoring software.
http://search.yahoo.com/search?search=monitor+someone%27s+computer+activity&ei=UTF-8&fr=ks-ans&ico-yahoo-search-value=http%3A%2F%2Frds.yahoo.com%2F_ylt%3DApxe3J8OzE5pJCjQ_y1hGQwazKIX%2FSIG%3D111gjvvgj%2F*-http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.yahoo.com%2Fsearch&ico-wikipedia-search-value=http%3A%2F%2Frds.yahoo.com%2F_ylt%3DAsYl0tTYtwjWP8f2RIOSBZcazKIX%2FSIG%3D11ia1qo58%2F**http%253a%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FSpecial%253aSearch&p=monitor+someone%27s+computer+activity
2006-09-26 06:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's obvious to any unemotional observer that you're secretly delighted to find a weakness in your boyfriend.
Your techno-snooping was hard to do, you had to develop some new skills to do it, but I'm certain --I'd bet your soul on it!-- that you were thrilled with the discovery.
Now you know that in doubting him and being suspicious and checking everything for yourself that you will always find something disgusting to dig up and crow about.
Furthermore, ashamed ot himself, he lied to you. How dare he do something like that to you, the one person he can tell everything to?
Believe me with all your heart: as you grow older your talent for snooping will grow and grow and grow. You'll get better and better and better at it. Already, at a young age, you've already reached the point of sophistication where you know you can't trust anyone about anything.
If you are suspicious enough, you won't be fooled about things. You're doing so well you should reward yourself with a nice restaurant dinner or even some new clothes.
2006-09-26 13:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can check the history icon on the top tool bar which will list all web site that was visited in past 24 hrs, anyway guys watching porn should not be a big deal, there are more important things in life to worry about.
2006-09-26 13:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by VJ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey. you dont need to check... you apparently know already.
"I have studied the history on his computer and I'm just very upset because on one day all he had accessed were porns...so I don't think the computer accessed the site by itself, like he states "
if you know something like this - and he gives you some lame excuse about the computer dialing it by itself - he's lying.
sorry babe
2006-09-26 13:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by abbiejojojo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are going to lose this boyfriend. To be quite honest, it is none of your business what he does for fun when he isn't with you. And even if he was your husband, does he have to be interested in just YOUR interests? You are gonna chase him away. He would be much better off without a nag looking over his shoulder with his every move.
My husband liked porn and he watched it occasionally. It weasn't for me - but he didn't much care for my interest in gardening either. It is perfectly normal and healthy for 2 people to like - even love - each other and not be mirror images of each other.
Give your boy friend some room to breathe or pack your bags and get out.
2006-09-26 13:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by north79004487 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you can check the history to see what sites he goes to but i dont think you can find out how long he had visited it. you also want to look in your computers download files to see if he downloaded anything from the websites.....hmmm maybe you should tell him that him watching doesnt upset you its the lying that does.
2006-09-26 13:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
definately sounds like trust is the issue, not porn. So talk to him about it, let him know it isn't a big deal about the porn, and maybe he will let you in a little more.
2006-09-26 13:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe consider giving him a *little* slack on his leash. Let him preserve some identity from your scrutinies.
2006-09-26 13:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by AntiDisEstablishmentTarianism 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look in the history folder, every day. You can't do more!!!!!!
But this is only the technical aspect of the question.
2006-09-26 13:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM!
Seriously...you wouldn't like it if he was spying on you, and he wouldn't like to be spied on either.
Also, if you can't trust him to be honest in answering you when you ask, there are bigger problems and you should think about where the relationship is going.
Mutual honesty and respect are essential.
2006-09-26 13:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him, dump him. Seriously. This isn't about how much he watches porn, it's about how little you trust him. If you even suspect he's lying to you, it's time to lose him. Good luck.
2006-09-26 13:09:38 · answer #11 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋