bf,of4 yrs,father2 my son,has parents over 2 take out his other child,not r's,is this rude&wrong??

Question

4 yrs together,me& my kids, opened r home up so we all could b 2gether,i helped him get custody of his 2 when,their mom,fled state w/o his consent,our son together is now 2 and his mom and dad come over jst to take them,and leaves out r lil one,and yet to take him any time!!!he has an excuse every time i ask him why? he left us fer the weekend to take his 2 boys to seaworld when he knew thats where i would like to take my kidz, if i was able to get one to cover my job while away(I'm selfemployed),he olny gave 1 day notice b4 he left,and brought no suveniers when he returned??? R people really this fake!!!!

Answer 1

Okay, I'm going to give his parents the benefit of the doubt here and say that maybe they aren't taking the youngest because he has two parents all the time, and they want to make their older grandkids feel special, too. As for the bf, he's either an insensitive, thoughtless boob; or he's just not that into you and your family. If you are living together and sharing expenses, how is it he can afford to go to Sea World when you can't? Is it possible you are shouldering too much of the burden? I think it's ultimatum time...He needs to marry you and commit to this family, or he needs to make like a horse turd and hit the trail.

Answer 2

large question. i'm a Virgo. My mom is a Capricorn. My dad a Taurus. All earth signs and indications below a million roof isn't continuously reliable. My father and mom were married for 16yrs. then divorced. i imagine it changed into the finished project they'd have executed. My dad reported black and my mom white. Being a teen in the course of the divorce changed into so complicated. I trust you. Astrology is a reliable device yet no man or woman could base a courting on it. you're on authentic of problems with your existence. although, gaining information of someone's temperaments isn't a nasty project.

Answer 3

yeah that's so wrong.... talk to him about treating you all as one family.

I come from a blended family. I didn't even know the word- half sister in my house until I was grown ( it was like a curse word0 My sis is my sis and even my grandparen'ts who arent hers treat her like they are.

I have 2 sons and 3 stepsons. They are all brothers.

But ur is a little weird cause u are saying that ur 2 y.o is his child and their grandchild? If so asked them why and refuses to allow them to go anywhere without the little one. or at least make sure he takes trips with the 2 year old alone.

Answer 4

maybe they have a hard time with the responsibility of looking after a small child like diapers and crying, constant watching, some older people have a hard time with this, especially when there are other kids to watch as well.

Answer 5

It's very screwed up. But I saw my neighbors go through the same thing. Made me feel sad for the 11yo boy who didn't get to go out.

His parents most likely don't like you, and they are making your child suffer because of it.

Tell your boyfriend that they are only allowed to take all the children, or none of them. He needs to set this straight cause they are HIS Parents!

Answer 6

Yes, people really are this fake. I am never amazed anymore at what people will do. I would not put up with being left out like that. Good luck

Answer 7

is your child younger than his two. it could be that the grandparents would rather wait until your child is a little older before they take it any where. some grand parents have a hard time dealing with two year olds

Answer 8

Honey, you've been sleeping with him for four years and you're not married yet. Your kids aren' t his kids. Don't expect him to treat you like a wife and your kids like his offspring if they aren't.

Answer 9

THAT SITUATION SUCKS. BUT SOME HOW I THINK YOU COULD make it right, 4 that one child.