After a woman has spent years being with abusive and unfaithful "bad boys", she decides that she doesn't want that any more and "settles" for the good guy.
What makes her think that he'll settle for her? Maybe he doesn't want all of her baggage and drama from her previous bad boy adventures.
Furthermore, wouldn't it just be easier to go with the good guy in the first place? Why make things difficult on yourself?
2006-09-26 05:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because they think they can change the bad boy and then can't figure out went wrong..............
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-26 05:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me explain it like this. Haven't there been women in your life that were totally into you but you felt they were just average and then there were other girls that made your stomach feel like it had butterflies but they gave you a hard time ? Its like saying why dont you just bypass the girls that give you butterflies and just go for the one's that really like you and are nice to you. What it all comes down to is we want the people we are interested in to treat us good but that rarely happens. And as far as the good guy settling for the women with baggage, he will because she is the one that gives him those butterflies. Why dont you nice guys not make it difficult on yourselves and just go out with the nice girls right off the bat ?
2006-09-26 13:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yo,
A woman never knows how good she has it when she finds a good guy. They are so use to being treated the wrong way that they even doubt that an actual good guy can be a good guy. Ive had it happen so many times that I wish I could just go back to my old ways of being an ****** but its not in to me to be like that anymore.
2006-09-26 13:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by The R3al D3al 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some woman like the adventure or the challenge me however i hate drama and i want the good guy and have a hard time finding one so please tell me how to find a good one because seems I end up finding the drama and when i actually didn't he broke up with me because he just wasn't in love anymore
2006-09-26 12:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do see where u are coming from. Women always want what is wrong for them...but you can't know what a great man is if you don't survive past the horrible ones.
2006-09-26 13:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋