When I am giving my husband oral, he LOVES when I start licking "lower"! My question is...he won't say anything about it! He will not ask me to lick his azz/scrotum but he LOVES when I do. Why is this? I think all men like when women play around in that area with their tounge/finger tips but they won't say it because AZZ is a gay thing.
I want to do anything my man wants... how do I get him to tell me ALL his fantasies without being imbarassed? I will do anything as long as he asks!
2006-09-26 05:53:20 · 20 answers · asked by NaVy WiFeY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey! i have the same problems as you do too! well, sometimes guys think & assume that we, girls, know clearly what they want and need from us when we ourselves are not very sure of what they want us to do!!! it's very annoying & irritating :(
so what i do is, i'll pretend that i don't know what he want and what he need & i will not do anything to him the whole time.. so when he really want that "something" from me, he got no choice but to give in & tell me what he wants. cuz i only i give it to him when he tells me clearly what he wants me to do for him.. usually he gives in at the end of the day.. :X
2006-09-26 09:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When being really personal we are being really vulnerable. He could go somewhere that pushes beyond where you really want to go or expect reasonable, then you would be upset and spill out those words that will go like a dagger to his heart, "How could you think such things!?!"
As for what you described, he may not ask for it because it is already more than he would have asked for (in my case, if you went 'around back' I would stop you, I wouldn't want that tongue in my mouth after that and I'm all for tongues being used extensively outside of our respective mouths). It sounds like you are still firmly on 'a pedestal' of respect and some things he really wants would require you to come down off that revered place. You may not want to be there, but for him part of your value is that he thinks, at least sometimes, you do belong there. Feel honored that he has some respect for you, recognize that, thank him for that, then with a playful voice and mischevious smile say, "Now, let's get that trophy off the shelf and take it somewhere where it hasn't gone before, suggestions?"
2006-09-26 13:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have an open communication like married couples should, the two of you should be able to discuss all sexual likes/dislikes, etc. You should feel confortable bringing this subject up to him. And vice versa. While you're down there next time, just ask him if he likes what you're doing and if he wants more/less, etc. Go head, gurll! He will love you for it!!!!
2006-09-26 13:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by seventy8gurll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was that way at one time.And in time i did open up to my wife its not a gay thing if you want the azz played or licked by your partner it just feels good.
2006-09-26 13:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him all the things you like (prolly not all at once as it might overwhelm him) and if he still is afraid to say, just experiment and find out for yourself. Sometimes words are unnecessary. If he is saying things are not fulfilling for him sexually, I would question that. Otherwise, he's your playground. Go for it.
2006-09-26 12:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you basically answered your own question. just come rite out in a sensual way and ask him to tell you some of his fantasies and it would get you excited to act out his fantasies along with his pleasure on acting then out and letting you know what he wants..reassure him there is no room for embarrassment just pleasure.let him know you will do anything he asks!
2006-09-26 13:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by wheresmyfamilyline 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are like me I will do anything to please my husband i think you should just come out ask him what is something he always wanted to do in the bed room and when he tells you, you should make sure that you make it happen and make him feel confy when he is talk into you about it cause you know how men are.
2006-09-26 13:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by MRS.H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's afraid you will be repulsed. Next time you start, ask him if he likes it. Nothing hotter than looking down and seeing your woman enjoying what she is doing!
2006-09-26 12:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing it and see if he ask you why you stopped. Then tell him the exact same thing you have put in your question.
2006-09-26 12:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by purplesax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah my hubby was like that to and i just come out and told him that it doesnt mean he was gay to enjoy it that its ok to like it, hes not going to tell you he likes it overnight but in due time he will let his gaurd down, just tell him "honey if you are gay that would make me a man!"
2006-09-26 13:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by hannah and hailyn's mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋