This is a very sensitive question for me and him. But we don't know what else to do except ask. We have used those special lotions and have tried other methods we have read in books, but usually he lasts no longer than 10 minutes and bless his heart I know it bothers him.
So if there is anything you guys know to keep from doing this and go longer then please, please tell me. Cause I dont know what else to do.
2006-09-26 05:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by smysg00 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
No Im not complaining just want to go alittle longer than that is all, what woman doesnt
2006-09-26 06:02:08 · update #1
Two things you may try that can help.
Definetly masturbating before the act may help the situation. Not to be too graphic but while warming each other up this may be a possibility for further intimacy for you two. Otherwise, an old method to help staying power is for him to pull out before he gets too excited and for you to squeeze the base of his penis, specifically the urethera so that when he does ejaculate it does not come out. You have to squeeze hard enough so that it does not come out, like pinching off a straw so fluid can not go up. It is not harmful, sometimes it may sting, but it will help him to last longer and longer.
Lastly, not to be rude or anything, but you should be happy that he gets so excited around you that he can only last ten minutes. Some guys go so long not because of staying power but because the excitement and arousal are not there.
2006-09-26 05:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by PDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-31 22:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 minutes?! and you're complaining? Count your blessings lady - most men pop their nut in about 3 minutes. You could have him stimulate you more to begin with (in any way you find pleasurable) so that you could have an orgasm first -
In some cases, drugs called selective serotonin uptake inhibitors (antidepressants such as Lexapro and others) can be used to delay ejaculation. However one of the other side effects is that it really kills the libido. Good Luck
2006-09-26 05:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
premature ejaculation can be a sign of a health problem...
he needs to see a doc to get tested physically and psychologically.
It's wonderful you two are tackling the problem together!!! always shower him with kind words and don't make him feel like it's a problem/fault of his!!
again...best bet: get him to see a doc....and see a shrink
2006-09-26 05:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by silver butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has the same problem. Call a urologist and go with him on the appointment and speak with the doctor at the same time. Men tend not to tell the whole truth when it comes to discussing their jewels. The doctor may get a bigger picture of the problem if he hears from you as well. Good Luck. He should go to get exam to make sure everything is working properly and to make sure their are no prostrate issues.
2006-09-26 05:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the average American man lasts something like 2-3 minutes. In other words, you need a little help coming, and I would suggest he give you an orgasm or two orally before penetrating you. Then the ten minutes will be enough.
2006-09-26 06:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lasts 10 minutes and you're complaining? Nonetheless, masturbate him furiously until he feel he's getting ready to ***, and then STOP! Wait until his urge completely dies down and do it again. This will train his brain into thinking that it doesn't have to react so fast to a stimulus.
2006-09-26 05:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when he is about to ejaculate have him pull out real quick and squeeze it....just temporary solution though....but they do have pills now. Go to yahoo Health and they have some info on the subject.
2006-09-26 05:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going all rabbit speed or something? Tell him to slow down! Aside from that, I don't know. Give me a call, I'll show you some tricks!
2006-09-26 05:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-07-23 21:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋