2006-09-26 05:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because you need the downs to appreciate the ups.
2006-09-26 05:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in life is a roller coaster. My husband and I have been together for almost 16 years and I couldn't even begin to tell you the ups and downs we've had. But it's all been worth it because we are closer than ever. We still take the roller coaster ride, but ever ride down makes us stronger and closer and more in love than before. If you truely love each other then when you're going down you have to fight like hell to go back up...compromise, forgiveness, and being able to let the other make mistakes...its how you learn.
2006-09-26 05:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is like a Roller Coaster!!!
2006-09-26 05:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have a good marriage, think of the roller coaster as a good thing, up down, up down, up down........get it?
2006-09-26 05:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR MARRIAGE SHOULD BE A ROLLER COASTER BECAUSE YOU CANNOT FORGIVE AND ARE FULL OF HATE.
2006-09-26 21:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by observer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really more like a series of bad crashes, each occurring before you've healed from the last.
2006-09-26 06:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you live on a day to day basis with someone in such a close and intimate relationship, it is just bound to be that way.
2006-09-26 05:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's just life in general.
2006-09-26 06:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it isn't perfect no matter how hard you try to make it perfect. It has it's ups and downs.
2006-09-26 05:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt be. The first year maybe, just to adjust but after that if you truly love eachother it should be better. Get counseling.
2006-09-26 05:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋