2006-09-26 05:21:26 · 22 answers · asked by msbrownsugar2080 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you guys are young and if its an unplanned pregnancey he very well might be ashamed. You can not controll how he or anyone else feels about the situation all you can controll is how YOU react to their feelings. He has to tell his parents at some point. Just give him some time to come to terms with it. In the meantime focus on you and the baby. Educate yourself on what to expect and make sure you are strong and ready...he will come around & if he doesn't then you need to make sure you have other support such as friends and family!
Good luck!
2006-09-26 05:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them yourself. If he isn't going to take the responsibility, then you are going to have to step up.They are the grandparents they have the right to know. Talk to him about your feelings toward it and if he doesn't want anything to do with it then dump him.It's better to find out now than it is to find out later. If he was happy about having a baby he would be telling everyone. Maybe he is just scared of what his parents will say, but he's going to have to get over it he helped making it so he can help with eveything else. It shouldn't be up to you to do everything you have enough to worry about. Don't listen to the idiot who told you to have a abortion that wouldn't be right. If the father don't want it then do it yourself. If you don't want to then put it up for adoption. There are plenty of good people out there who can't have kids and would love to have one. You can;t be selfish when it comes to a baby's life! Give the baby a chance at a happy life it's not the baby's fault all of this is going on. Do what you know in your heart would be best! Good luck
2006-09-26 12:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have that baby. It's going to be a disaster. He's immature, you're going to be a single mother and no child should have to be brought into an already over-populated world to a family that doesn't seem to want them. Maybe you do, but I'm guessing you're pretty young if the father is hedging on telling his parents. Get to a clinic before it's too late and you ruin 2 lives, yours and your kid.
2006-09-26 12:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, next time you get pregnant, be sure to wait until you're in a stable marriage so little people don't get caught in the middle of your drama. They don't deserve that and they don't understand why their daddy doesn't want them. You need to find a good couple for adoption and love your baby enough to give him a stable life.
2006-09-26 12:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a serious serious talk with him...tell him everything you are feeling dont hold bakk nothing...and then see how it goes...
after that if he is still acting the same way..i dont say leave him becuz the baby needs a father too..its not the babies fault...if he is tryin to b in the babies life then let him...and try to b that family...and he will tell his parents when he is ready...
its not easy to tell somethin like that..and i say make sure you thinkin from his point of view too...
2006-09-26 12:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by NiKkI Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you both is my first question? I only ask, as it reads like he has to seek approval from his parents or they are going to yell at him?
Sit down with your man and find out why he is so reluctant to tell his parents, and Hun if he wont then you know where the phone is, do it for him
2006-09-26 12:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together w/ the my father of your child and talk to each other so that there is no confusion between the 2 of you and you both tell his parents together that you are pregnant w/ his child.
2006-09-26 12:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by readsharrypotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you married or living together ? if not that might be the answer. Tell him to act like a man not only in bed but in real life too .
2006-09-26 12:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by gilgehl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are and that makes a big difference. Maybe he's just scared. You've just given him some life altering news, give him a little break.
2006-09-26 12:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what does he plan nw,does he want to marry you and be a responsible father,or he just want to be irresponsible,atleast you can have time to think n leave him,and prepare being a single mom.
2006-09-26 12:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋