Chiron; ( The Wounded Healer) Where our wound is, one who wounds, one who heals. Do you wound others with your wound, or heal others with the knowledege of it?
This is a 2 part question,"Please" answer both parts, thanks.
2006-09-26 05:15:07 · 27 answers · asked by Pablo 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
1. Best question I've ever read on Yahoo!. I feel that it's never intentional to hurt others it sometimes just happens intuitively out of our own selfishness, likely knowing or feeling as if we'll eventually be forgiven for the mistake. If we took the time to put the shoe on the other foot we'd think or maybe even react much differently. Which basically consititutes us treating others as we'd like to be treated.
2. Sometimes we react negatively toward others and don't even realize what we've done. If your feeling a certain way you may lash out at someone completely unintentionally, but it happens. Its a part of life. Everyone tries or should at least try to heal others. We affect each and every person we meet rather it be verbatim or oblique. We never know who a person we meet may be. Thanks For Your Time. Be Good... Peace!
2006-10-02 08:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Muney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we hurt the ones we love without knowing that the other is hurting...well it's just the fact that we don't really know what can hurt the ones we love. This is due to the fact that everybody's minds and opinions keep changing. I sometimes get 'wounded' as you say and I try not to think about it at the moment...and later when I think about it, I decide about the outcome. The real answer to the healing part is that when I love that someone, ofcourse I'll try to 'heal his wounds'.
2006-09-26 08:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kate L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think us men hurt the woman we love, so we can get a reaction and make it better for us, although this seldom works, we just want to hurt, to see if they still love us and keep running back to us, but before long if we do it to much the woman will leave and we will be the ones with the broken heart. So all you men treat your girlfriend/wife like a princess and give her some flowers sometimes, and a nice hug is always good too. I hope I answered both questions, good luck
2006-10-01 20:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why 2 parts? Where is Part 1?
2006-10-01 19:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't like to wound my love ones unless they tried to wound me and later found out they were wrong then I like to kind of wound them proving I was right. For the most part I like to teach knowledge especially from a past wound so that person don't face what I faced.
2006-09-26 05:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by "tre-double" 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many hurt the ones they love due to the need to release the pain onto a subject that feels safe to them at the moment, we learn in time our loved ones are the safest punching bag. But personally at some point in my existance I have learned not to project my pain outward to others in any way but to do the total opposite and treat everyone the way I so desperately need to be treated. Even when I am at my lowest point. This became easier when I became my best friend which helps give me the tools to use in many different given situations.
2006-09-26 05:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mystic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on my mood and how recent the wound is....if the wound is "fresh" and still a little bit tender...then yes I may wound someone who I care about because it makes me feel better..misery loves company so to speak. (it's human nature....I feel bad after I did it but *shrug* I'm only human) And I will definitely wound the person who has wounded me...pay back is a *****...and I am a big enough ***** to make sure their wound is a hella lot deeper than mine is....may take years of repair and a lot of treatment! :)
If the wound is a scar then I will try to forewarn someone I care about if they are getting themselves into a similar situation that gave me the scar. Whether they heed the advice or not is up to them...but at least I warned them or tried to help them.
2006-09-26 05:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that we hurt the ones we love because they are the closest things to us at the time and when you are in pain - misery loves company. You don't mean to do it, but, at the time all you want is that person to feel what you are feeling. Sometimes that is the only way to get your feelings across.
2006-09-26 05:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are the person closest to us and we let are complete guard down and we show are real self to others we hold up our barriers
i heal and hurt because of things i have been through i lash out at others but for the same reason i protect others
2006-10-03 10:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All man have weakness, some people are selfish, some people think that money is the world, some people are very sensitive. when their weakness over power the love, they might do something that hurt the others.
2006-09-26 05:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Ada F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋