im against abortions anywase me and my boyfriend are living together sometime i wanna do something different so how can i make him feel special
2006-09-26 05:04:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Make him feel special, honey you're carrying his child. If that's not enough for him then no dinner is gonna be. Then make sure you have a high school degree and a good job because the odds of your boyfriend contributing to the welfare of you and that baby till Baby turns eighteen are ....oh on the level of zero. So that means daycare, doctor bills, clothes, food, rent, electric, car payments, or doing what so many do... dropping the baby off with Momma. Take the stars out of your eyes and get cracking on the reality of being responsible for another life who won't be little for ever. I know thats not what you want to hear, but tough as it is its what you have to know.
2006-09-26 05:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by justa 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, I'm a young mother, maybe not as young as you but i'm 23 and i just had my baby girl. I would say just a couple of things, make sure you are able to provide for her at least what your mother gave you. I think it is unfair to bring a kid into the world and not being able to give him/her at least what we were able to have. Also, think that a baby is a lot of responsability. I can see that you like to have a young mother, but think that while other teenagers are going to be able to go to the club, you are goin to be stuck with a baby. If you are lucky enough maybe your mom can take care of it, but it will never be the same. Even for dating. If you are in good terms with the father, maybe you can last and God willing you'll leave happily ever after, but if not, then if ever you want to date think that it is going to have to be someone that gets a long with your kid, and that maybe your kid is going to be a no no in a guys mind. Maybe he will just think that you are an "easy" chic to have a couple of fun times, and then leave you for someone that has no responsabilities. anyways, i don't mean to ruin your night with my comment. Just think about it.
2016-03-18 01:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 16 and feel you are mature enough to be a mother, you should do something nice for your boyfriend AND your child by getting your G.E.D. That's a high school diploma you can get by calling the school district where you live and applying to take classes. An educated mother is a wonderful gift to a child and a good thing for the baby's dad. You will be able to get a good job someday and help support the family.
2006-09-26 05:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why should we care if you're 16 and against abortion? What does that have to do with doing something different for your boyfriend to make him feel special?
2006-09-26 06:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you have money find something he really likes and buy it for him as long as it isnt going to make you go broke, maybe if he likes football you can buy two tickets to a football game for him and a friend or if he want to take you they dont have to be excellent seats the thought is what counts.
2006-09-26 05:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lisha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not much you can do because it's all about you now and he needs 2-3 jobs to take care of you guys, cook him dinner and give him a massage that's special enough you already gave him your goodies there's nothing else left.
2006-09-26 05:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your question definitely shows your age!!! Wasn't actually a question....you have already made your boyfriend feel special by laying down and spreading your legs to him.
2006-09-26 18:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the things that he is into, and try to find an idea with that. After the baby comes it will be hard to find something nice to do unless you have a good babysitter.
2006-09-26 05:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bridget H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
16, how about getting an education and having enough knowledge to bring home the bacon. Thats a nice gift.
2006-09-26 05:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Make u 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its easy to make men feel special. do him a dance and make love. Most men find there pregnant women very satisfying. ???
2006-09-26 05:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋