has failed? Daycare eats away anything I make. Is this copping out? I would only consider doing anything with my own partner or alone.
2006-09-26 04:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
I think pots to pee in and food for the babies trumps ethics.
You gotta do what you gotta do.
If you're okay with it, and the kids aren't subjected to it, it isn't anyone else's business, unless of course, they'd like to feed and clothe your kids for you.
good luck
2006-09-26 04:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cop out. There are better ways to raise your family and there are so much more assistance available then in the 60s - 70s when women had it rough being a single parent.
2006-09-26 05:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 05:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by klmiller1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question, then you're obviously hesitant to do it and would therefore be lowering your standards or going against your better judgement. Think of the impact it would have on the kids (who would definitely figure out what you were doing).
Have you tried going back to school? My sister is a single mom of 3 and working as a waitress wasn't doing it for her.
She went back to school and was able to get alot of money in grants and loans to supplement her meager income while she is in school.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 04:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by CE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 10:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS A SINGLE MOM FOR A LONG TIME THE THING TO THINK ABOUT IS WHAT EFFECT THIS MIGHT HAVE ON YOUR CHILDREN NOT TO MENTION THE DANGER IN THAT PROFESSION . LOOK WE ALL HAVE HARD TIMES IN OUR LIFE I DON'T THINK IT'S COPPING OUT BUT I THINK IT'S THE EASY WAY OUT. TRY AND FIND SOMETHING THAT EXPRESSES WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOUR BODY IS. BUT THIS IS YOUR DECISION. NOW WHAT I DID IS STARTED COLLECTING CHILD SUPPORT THAT HELPED A LOT AND MY FAMILY HELPED WITH THE DAYCARE BY BABYSITTING MY CHILDREN FOR ME. SO TRY AND FIND A FAMILY MEMBER TO HELP AND TRY TO FIND A BETTER PROFESSION FAST MONEY IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST MONEY.
2006-09-26 05:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by diamond girl36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where your morals lie. If you could do it and not feel horrible and ashamed then try it. If it would comprimise your self-esteem and your values then don't do it, it's not worth it. Plus, remember you have 4 children. How will you deal with it when they find out? Because they will. Envision yourself telling them why you chose this means of making money. How does that make you feel to picture explaining this to them? Unfortunately, people struggle every day. You gotta do what you gotta do. If this is what you gotta do then do it.
2006-09-26 05:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sarrah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a question of ethics, its a question of morals. If yours allows you to have pervs checking out your personal parts then go ahead. If after four kids, you could consider getting naked for the cameras, then I'm amazed. Look into phone sex to see if you could cut down on daycare expenses and look into Planned Parenthood so you don't have to worry about baby number five.
Also check out social services in your area, you don't have to be on welfare for them to help you out in other areas, like child care providers and job searching.
2006-09-26 05:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I would hate to see you make a choice for the money now, only to regret it later.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 04:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 02:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋