there is this girl that i dated off and on she said she loved me and we planed to get married but then she broke up with me we are still friends but i want to be more than friends and i still love her is there any way to tell if she wants me back just resontly she asked me for some money and i gave it to her when i did she kissed me like she did when we were dating but when i asked her about it she said it was a thank you the day before that we were in her car and she asked me if i was flirting with her and i asked her the same and she said maybe is that a sign that she wants me back but dont know how to go about it. she knows i want her back what should i do?
2006-09-26 04:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by Jonathan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop being a doormat. She's taking advantage of your feelings for her and using you.
2006-09-26 04:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful....she might be using you. She borrowed money from you and then kissed you? Why don't you ask her when she's paying you back? Check her reaction. You never know maybe she set you up to be like this with her. Give her whatever and whenever she wants, without their being any strings attached. Your feelings are looming in the air. You should ask her out. See what she says. If she thinks you two are better as friends, well then you know.
2006-09-26 11:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not willing to just sit and talk to the woman about chances of you two reconnecting, I say you need to move on.
2006-09-26 11:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she want you back if she can keep getting money from you from being your friend.don't let her make a fool out of you.stop giving her money and see if her attitude changes.
2006-09-26 11:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessed. She wants nothing to do with you. You're good for a loan sometimes, occasional support - you're like her gay friend.
Give it up, she has.
FP
2006-09-26 11:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me she wants you back but doesn't want to be the first to admit it...so keep doing what your doing
2006-09-26 11:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on Sir.
2006-09-26 11:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋