I love the guy, but can't stand to be with him. he has a short fuse a hot temper. And very dependent on me emotionally. We've been together for 4 years. We also live together. How do I end it as quietly as possible. I'm affraid of what he might do. The smallest things can set him off. I want to just leave, pack my stuff while he's at work and move to one of my parents house. Anyother ideas?
2006-09-26 04:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by DAWN E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, if your afraid of what he may do -I say do it the way you just described. This is about whats best for YOU not him.
2006-09-26 04:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that will be your safest bet...leave him a letter explaining your feelings and get some friends to help you...take a day off of work pack all your things an leave..Thats what i did.. my ex had the same problem i just grabbed all my stuff with friends help and left... i left him a 8 page letter explaining i love him but i cant take his temper anymore he freaked an kept calling my phone but i didnt answer leave and wait a couple days to talk to him after he has calmed down...good luck
2006-09-26 04:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering what you have said about him I think that is a pretty good idea. Of course there is the question of what will he do since he probably knows where your parents live and will try and track you down there? Is this guys anger issues serious enough to consider starting over far away from him where you can't be found at all?
2006-09-26 04:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They end considering which you base a dating on intercourse----If issues have been somewhat severe you does no longer have hesitations concerning to the dating quite being severe. you unquestionably need to look for out a counselor and get some severe finding into that head of yours----in case you do no longer you will bypass by life as you're suitable now----and if that is working for then you definately ok....yet sounds to me such as you want extra out of relationships than you're prepared to grant!
2016-10-18 00:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by hosford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you really can do for him, but to leave him, I guess he's not a kid anymore to respond with such behavior and attitude. I think He should seek a psychiatrist for relationship.the best way to do for you now is to brake up with him and continue your plans and life. Let him have his life. If he still bothers you and your family. Don't be afraid to seek a police help.
2006-09-26 04:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it at once but write him a note why you did that. You cannot change his character.
2006-09-26 04:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the mate your not interested anymore
2006-09-26 04:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by so_ebony_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋