We both still love each other, we have a 15mth old daughter. I did something to hurt him a few years back and he claims to not be over it. What can I do to make it right and have my family bck 2gether?
2006-09-26 04:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by Teapot23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess it depends on what you did. But apparently you have to prove to him that he can have complete trust in you again and do whatever it takes to show him how much you love him. Be completely honest with him about why whatever happened did. and how you feel and just keep on trying. Keep talking about it cuz not talking (kinda like outta sight, outta mind), doesn't make it go away or make things any better. If you REALLY love each other just keep working at it and things will be ok
2006-09-26 04:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by tandtfowkes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this was 2yrs ago, my thing is if he really want to forgive you and move on as a family, he will, it will take a long time to get over what has happened if it's something that bad but to move ahead he need to keep the past in the past & work on a happier future as a family. Now whatever you did, if you want a relationship you need to step up to the plate, acknowledge what you did, aplologize & also move forward, leaving the past in the past. You'll never make it if you keep bringing up the past.
2006-09-26 11:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by "tre-double" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's using the thing you did to him a few years back as an excuse. He did have a baby with you 15 months ago. He seemed to be over it when you guys were in bed.
2006-09-26 11:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to show him how much it hurts you and your daughter that he still is holding on to the past. let him nknow how much both of you need him to be able to be a family or else your relationshp is going to end with divorce and that could hurt your daughter.
2006-09-26 11:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooo man look i dont what tosayed like a but you can tell him that the past is the past and you whant to move on if he cant you need to just becose if he cant he well hert you
2006-09-26 11:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by jack_chase_car 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds
2006-09-26 11:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a pastor
2006-09-26 11:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋