ok my friends dared me to go with this guy for two weeks and i would get $200 each week and the guy really liked me. So i went out with him and broke up in two weeks like i said i would. Now i am really in love with him and he now knows about the bet and was mad i can understand that. But he sees other women and we are good friends but i want to tell him how i feel but him but scared to ruin or friendship how do i tell him PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-09-26 04:38:30 · 43 answers · asked by MRZ.SQUAREPANTS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have already toyed with his emotions and probably hurt him. you are lucky he is still your friend. Sounds like a guy worth keeping.....So, be honest and up front and just tell him how you feel. If he liked you once, and is still your friend after what you did, he's probably waiting for you to make the next move. Good luck!
2006-09-26 04:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by kksay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should watch 10 Thing I Hate About You...that will give you some ideas. If you're really into this guy you need to make a grand gesture like use all the money you made to buy him something you know he wants - that will show him you care about him more than the money. It's not enough to just tell him how you feel because you wronged him, and hurt his feelings. You have show him that you're not that person anymore so before he can even think about getting involved with you again.
2006-09-26 05:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by NutterButter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you ruined the friendship by going out with him on a dare for money. If he can forgive you, then you should just tell him how you feel. You might be friends now but his trust is not there, you dont need to be scared because it is just something that is in your mind, you can overcome that fear. If you are still friends it could mean that he still likes you, just tell him how you feel about him. Good Luck :)
2006-09-26 04:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he dated you for 2 weeks, he obviosly has feeling for you. Sure he is mad at you b/c of the bet, but tell him how you feel. Be honest with him, he thinks you went out with him b/c of the bet...and lied to him. If you come clean about your feeling for him, he may respect you a little more. He could also still have feelings for you too. Always be honest. If you have the $200 tell him..hey I have all this money, you wanna go to a nice resturant and a movie with me?....since the bet was at his expense and all.
2006-09-26 04:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you potentially ruined the relationship the second you took the bet. You took it (and your friends made it) simply to play with his emotions, make fun of him, and ridicule his situation.
You can tell him how you feel, but be honest! If he stays, then all the more power to him. On the other hand, you should respect his right to walk away. Hopefully a lesson can be learned here.
Sometimes love is based on things where you'd least expect it.
2006-09-26 04:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worried about ruining the relationship you have got to be kidding. It sounds like you should go out on a limb and tell this guy how you feel. Games hardly ever pay off but this one did (if you got paid) No matter what happens I think you owe this guy a little honesty
2006-09-26 04:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by rollerbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not going to like hearing this, BUT this guy now knows that you will play with someone's heart for money...not a great thing to know about someone.You hurt him bad...just walk away and realize you've learned a lesson, and ALSO had a part in building this guy's future relationships...he is much less likely to trust women and you kicked him where it hurts.
Find someone else and be real about it!
2006-09-26 04:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by jasondne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how you feel, because you regret more thing that you don't do, then things you do. If you are good friend then telling him that you like/love him will not damage your friendship. There is also a good chance that he also likes you. Its always nice to have someone tell you they like/love you. life is too short to wast opportunities, so just go for it, tell the guy, whats the worst that could happen?
2006-09-26 04:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Oracle Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing would probably happen to me.
and in a way it kinda did
so what i did was go on myspace pretending to be my own friend
so he didnt know it was really me and i was like julianna{me} Loves yooh
He asked me out 3 days laterr.
Or yooh should get a friend to do it if yooh are shyy.
Or maybe yooh should pack up the courage before its too late
He will have a girl and yooh will probably be broken hearted
Yooh never know he probably has the same feelings for yooh
And if he wants to go out with yooh make it clear that whatever happens yooh want to stay good friends.
2006-09-26 14:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely tell him how you feel and give a sincere apology. Admitt that what you did was stupid. In a way it kinda sounds like "How to Lose A Guy in 10 Days". If he likes you as much as you say he does then he should forgive you and you have some MAJOR proving to do!! Good luck!!
2006-09-26 04:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋