2006-09-26 04:25:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you mean CRUSH then YES it's possible.
i came from an exclusive school for girls and i did had crushes.
our teachers pointed out that it is normal to have crushes.. and still be not a bisexual.... but no having relationships whatsoever.
i know the difference of a crush, love, or sexual attraction.
you could have a crush on another woman because she is so talented or beautiful... and might only mean that you adore her for that. but doesn't mean you're bisexual.
2006-09-26 04:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by aenaea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, because you don't like the words?
"Gay" and "bisexual" are just labels. It's been pretty well established that everybody's bisexual to some degree, even though most people never act on, or are even conscious of, an attraction to the same sex (if "heterosexual") or the opposite sex (if "homosexual"). "Bisexuals" are just people who are conscious of an attraction to both sexes. Some people would use the term only to refer to people who actually have sex with members of both sexes, but that seems a little narrow to me. A person can be celibate but still identify with a sexual orientation.
In other words, I'd say if you crush on other women, you probably have bisexual tendencies, even if you have sex with men.
2006-09-26 04:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the motive is. A crush,I personally feel is a crush, and thus puts certain feelings or thoughts into your head, so only you can answer what those feelings or thoughts are. Are they sexual? If the answer is yes, which indicates a crush, then that indicates a bisexual fantasy or feeling.
2006-09-26 04:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can feel an attraction to another woman and not be Bi, or even gay. I feel the same way when I am around one of my best friends. I feel the attraction but I don't act on it. I find her to be very beautiful inside and out. However, I don't feel this way about any other woman out there. And maybe I am bi-curious. But I haven't found the correct moment or time to experiment.
This is just something that you have to look deep inside your self to find the answer.
2006-09-26 04:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by marcie2000k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think it is possible, a lot of people get crushes on someone of the same sex and it dosnt mean you are gay. its just part of life. a lot of the time feelings can get confused because you get on with a person so well and have so much in common and if you enjoy spending a lot of time with them you can start to feel atracted to them.
if you want to act on your feelings it could mean you are bisexual but only you can decide that.
lots of people have crushes on teachers and work colleagues because of the type of relationship it is (i.e they are someone you look up to) so it could be just the same for you with this person
2006-09-26 04:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by caz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you mean by crush? If it is a flutter and excitement to be with them. Then that is not gay or bisexual. If you masterbate while sniffing her knickers then I think you might find that is going more down the bisexual/lesbian route.
2006-09-26 04:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, sometimes people just give of a certain something and you can find yourself attracted to them it can be a personality thing or confidance or just the way they look and treat you. You might have had a connection with this person in the pre-existence before coming to earth. Just know that you will only be friends and it will be ok. Good luck.
2006-09-26 04:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by moronirocks2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends I guess. I think some women are very attractive. Like Anjelina Jolie... cliche I know. But she's gorgeous! But I don't think I'm sexually attracted to her. Also, you can have a great deal of love and respect for a woman, but it's not necessarily sexual desire or anything.
And if you do have sexual feelings for a woman, who cares! Be yourself and you'll be happy. Don't give a damn about how others say you should live your life!
2006-09-26 04:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by jamiesacademyofdance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I am sorry to say but you are Bi. And that isn't a bad thing either. Just because you have a crush only on one female doesn't change things. Enjoy.
2006-09-26 04:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...depends on to what extent that crush is like...if the crush is just on looks then its normal..but if it includes liking of the anatomy specificly or even as a whole...maybe theres a slight chance of being bisexual...
goodluck
2006-09-26 04:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋