2006-09-26 04:24:57 · 14 answers · asked by lavonda w 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Other - US Dining Out
You can start by giving me a call - or sending your picture and contact information in to Howard Stern - Artie Lange is looking for a date.
2006-09-26 04:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by LennyK3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with some of your girlfriends to a club or something. You'll at least get a feel for what it's like to be out on the town again. Go to museums or plays or concerts. Go to a writing class, or take standup comedy lessons or a cooking class. You'll run into interesting people that way
But whatever you do, don't actively look for a man. That is, never go out with the specific intent to meet a man. You'll only end up depressed almost every time nothing happens. Most relationships begin when the people are least suspecting it. If you're out just to have fun with your friends, you'll never be disappointed if you don't meet someone because that wasn't your goal anyway. Just go out, look at men, point out the cute ones to your friends and have a good time. Go to poetry readings (poetry slams are better because everyone is usually laughing and having a good time), movies, street fairs. If you're in a major city, most museums have singles night type of things where you have drinks, a few appetizers, look at the art or whatnot and mingle. You'llmeet someone when you least expect it.
But like I said, DON'T make meeting someone your main focus. You will be disappointed with each passing second "Mr. Right" doesn't come along. Have fun and enjoy your surroundings.
2006-09-26 11:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age but you could try to look into Singles Clubs in your area. Check your local newspaper or give them a call. Most newspapers only post these meeting once a month. Also, some churches have singles clubs too. If you are a senior....try looking into a local seniors club. Anyhow, you need to first plug yourself in to a group of singles such as you for friendship and the dates will come later.
2006-09-26 11:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up ( not because of the death, but to continue with life).
Show yourself as a happy, healthy, good humor, person, and friends will come to you.
Sorry to say, but forget about your husband, do not talk about him, not even compare neither situations nor styles related to him.
Get some information about different issues, ( politics, sports, movies, etc. ) so you can chat about several issues, not only a couple of them, so you can meed any kind of people.
Most important thing: Be yourself, do not pretend being someone else.
Do not show yourself too anxious about meeting or dating someone, relax, take your time and. . . . . enjoy.
Good luck.
2006-09-26 11:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Classy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, I lost my wife 2 years ago, and I did not want to see anybody. I am very happily married now, and that just happened by accident. I was not looking for a mate, we just happened to find each other, and the rest is history.
Don't be in a rush to find that someone special, believe me, it will happen for the right reasons.
Good luck, I wish you all the best!!!!
2006-09-26 11:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just did the first step by asking about it !!!
now you just need to start going out with no plan in mind just to have some fun with friends and to have a good time because you deserve it. Then when the moment is right it will click in you r mind and you'll be ready to start looking at guys with other eyes and intentions. Ask your friends to show you a good time...
2006-09-27 21:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is when you are ready to get back into the dating scene you will know. The better answer I can give is pray to God and ask him if he is ready for you to get back into the dating scene.
2006-09-26 11:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it's alright you just have too make plans to go out and explore the town meet new guys go to a bar or club u should meet some one there.
2006-09-26 11:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by jeremy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out there. Church socials, square dancing, and single clubs. Sorry for your loss.
2006-09-30 09:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by gramcracker541 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house & mingle . just take things slow to be sure to get what you want .
2006-09-26 11:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋