2006-09-26 04:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by sivan w 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR MEN...:
Men fantasize about women in sexual situations with themselves and other women. Women, on the other hand, fantasize about men being attentive to them. I get turned on when a guy seems "into" ME [not my vagina]. That makes me REALLY h*rny. Imagining a hot guy banging my brains out does nothing for me. Imagining a hot guy gently caressing my arms and neck while whispering flattering (not offensive and disrespectful) things in my ear totally puts me in the mood. I think this is why in the movie "Something About Mary", Stiller spanks off before his date with Mary,... so he can focus on her and not sex, as he knows this is the best way to "get" the girl.
Now, having said this.... Why then do so many men complain about not getting enough 'tang if they're not willing to play the part of "Mr. Romance"? Why is that word so offensive to men? It's not gay, it's what gets you laid. It's not jumping thru hoops, it's a "natural dance".
If you want a freak in the bedroom, you need to be a considerate gentleman with a delicate touch when it really counts.
2006-09-26 13:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear what you're saying. I met a single girl at the end of last year and experienced some of the most incredible chemistry I've ever experienced with a girl. We talked for hours, gazed into each others' eyes, called and texted each other constantly. When I wasn't around she told me she missed me, needed me. I had quite a crush on her too.
Eventually, after about six weeks of positive signals, I got confused as to why nothing had happened yet so, choosing my moment, I moved in for the kiss at one point. She moved away hurriedly and said: "Oh no! Can't we just be friends?" (ie. "Can we keep everything just as it is, but no sex?")
I have very rarely ever had a girl bring up sex (or even kissing!) in a conversation with me - far less actually propose it. Even when we're getting on fantastically well. I had generally been thinking that it's better to wait for her to start flirting - because I don't want to come across as presumptuous or heavy handed - but then waiting doesn't really work, I suppose, because if you're happy to wait, you may very well find that you end up waiting forever.
But by the same token most of the time I don't get much of a signal from the girl that it's even okay for me to start flirting either. Almost inevitably, when I do - and I don't often feel that it's appropriate to... I don't want to kill the conversation and the ambience when we're getting on so well - I get some sidelong look like there's something wrong and I've just messed everything up.
However there's no denying that women absolutely love sex. With whom I don't know. Arrogant idiots who are full of themselves, I suppose, rather than guys who would rather just chat to girls with self-assurance and a sense of humour and not put on a ridiculous front. I've decided that - whatever it is - I'm missing something. But I haven't figured out what it is yet.
Best of luck.
2006-09-26 13:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Alan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like sex.. It is just some men we don't like to have sex with.
2006-09-26 17:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im some asian countries, women are not allowed to express their likes for sex.....it could be considered a taboo....but in reality, if they are given the opportunity to express themselves it's a completely different story. Since you are new here, you will realise later on that most women at Yahoo Answers love sex!
2006-09-26 12:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said that, cause i know many women that love sex
2006-09-26 11:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by N S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? Try finding a partner that isn't clouded up with stereotypes. I would guess women can enjoy sex physically/mentally more than men but they have to be in the mood. Men don't need to be in the mood as much (how much no one knows) but they honestly don't enjoy it as much. Hell my penis doesn't get as much pleasure as my anus! That's kind of depressing to see how much more a woman feels compared to a guy.
2006-09-26 12:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love sex, and all women that I know love it too.
2006-09-26 12:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know quite a few women who love sex...and quite a few who just like it...so what "women" are you referring to because you mistakenly referred to over 3 billion of us and are WAY off base...LOL!
2006-09-26 13:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do like sex..
Just because women do not like having sex with you
does not mean that they do not like sex with other people.
2006-09-26 19:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to know the right kind of women; or women, at all, for that matter.
2006-09-26 12:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋