Top 2 worst days of your life?

Question

hey, its abit of of a negative post but we have all had them, so what would you say your top worst 2 days were..

mine are:
#1 when my mom passed away, i was only 12, feels just like yesterday.
#2 the day my ex first hit me, thought he was my soulmate, the worst part about that is i actually married the *****...but that's history thank god!

Answer 1

#1 the day my wife died
#2the day I burried her and had to say goodbye. that hurt!!!!!
#3 our anniversery on thursday

Answer 2

I actually had a hard time with this one. I have a perspective that lets me learn from the worst experiences as well as the best. So, while I have had bad days, I view them from this perspective and I only see that they weren’t so bad once I extracted the lesson that they taught.

Day #1: The day my mother left us. I was 12 and came home from a week long school experience called Outdoor Lab. Snow was coming down hard…the beginning of the blizzard of 1982 in Denver. I had to walk home with my duffel bag on my shoulder because no one had come to pick me up. I had no key to the house…mom had always been home and I never needed one. I sat on the porch as the snow fell until my older brother came home from Jr. High School and opened the door. He told me that mom left while I was gone.

Over the next 25 years I learned to forgive her. I grew quickly to take responsibility around the house for my younger brothers and sister (just a toddler when mom left.)
I now have a good relationship with her, so the shock and pain of her leaving is healed.

Day #2: The day I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. It sucks to have a condition that deteriorates as the years go by. It sucks to need injections, infusions, and a yearly MRI to map the damage of the disease. Still, it is a relief to know that I won’t live in mortality forever, so I won’t have this condition forever. Also, it is a relief to know why I lose feeling in my arms, legs, torso, neck; and why I get vertigo that lasts for weeks at a time.

Answer 3

The best and worst day of my life was the day that my mother left me and my father didn't want anything to do with me. Why I say its the worst day is because they left me and seemed like I was a bother and it hurt a lot and everyone for the rest of my life seemed to treat me that way. It was the best day of my life because through that experience I realized attachment and the real problem with ourselves. I never want anyone to experience it, like death, but without this teaching, even death, you will never realize the delusional states we all live in today. Have a great day :)

Answer 4

The worst is the day my 18 month old son drowned.That's been 20 years ago---The second worst is the day my husband told me he wanted a divorce.I was devestated.That's been 4 years ago and I have just recently started to really get over him.

Answer 5

in the hospital 1&2

Answer 6

Now, this is a depressive question if I ever seen one.

The day my mom died was probably the worst (I was 17 by then)

Second worse would be when I lost my job in th company I was working 3 years ago...

Answer 7

When they found a cantelope-sized mass in my dog's abdomen. That took more than 2 days to get the info about, so that takes both of my top two places.

Answer 8

1. The day my Grandfather died. We were so close. I was and still am devestated.

2. September 11, 2001.

Answer 9

Well, #1 would be when I had an open heart surgery at age 18 months old, because everyone thought I was going to die; and when I had to move to another state & leave my friends.

Answer 10

Worst day my mum dying on 9Th of Feb 1997 and second worst day my dad dying on the 1st of April same year. It does not seem that long ago, I miss them both every day of my life.

Answer 11

#1: The day i lashed out at my grandmom. She died the next day.
#2: My first wedding day. My family hated him and i was only 18.