why cant men just be honest instead of leaving a girl wondering?
2006-09-26 04:02:12 · 24 answers · asked by killan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well to be honest, the same can be said about women... but that is a whole differnt story... (I stop here to stop flamings). But get on with life, I take it you have not seen him in person? Anyway, there are always plenty of others waiting.
2006-09-26 04:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by fungal.style 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally have a friend that is going through the same thing. I feel that the guy is just keeping you dangling because he has someone else that they are trying to date, but if that falls through then they have the back up. I know this is a crappy thing to do but that is what some men do. If I were you I would confront the dude. Make him look you in the eyes and tell you why he is leading you on.
The best thing that could happen is that he tells the truth and it is bad or good. Or he could just lie to you and give you some BS. Watch his body language and it will tell you what he truly feels.
2006-09-26 04:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by marcie2000k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Girfriend was gonna catch him.
2.He got serious with a girl he was dating when he met you.
3. You said some things he didn't like.
Have you tried calling him? If not call and see if he will give you an honest answer. Just ask in a way that he knows it doesnt matter to you if he tells you the truth.
2006-09-26 04:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by whattodo30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you need a man to answer you? in your heart you know this guy was leading you on, otherwise he would still be in touch, to give him the benefit of the doubt, he could be a member of the armed forces and has been whisked away on a secret mission and with no time to let you know he'd be gone for a while. Is this likely????
2006-09-26 04:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure he didnt just lose his phone with your number on there?
Often its not the most obvious reasons that cause these things to happen - first thing that youwill think of is that hes not interested etc etc - but unless he has no way of contacting you or finding you other than your number, then maybe thats what happened.
2006-09-26 04:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayne he just wanted to sleep with u. When he didnt see it coming, he moved on or maybe he got someone else. ( Had he been honest and said straight he wanted to sleep with u, wud u have given in ? )
2006-09-26 04:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by cuteteddy761 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he phoned you every day and then didn't maybe he was waiting to see if you called him, I'm not sure, it's just the way some people are I'm afraid.
2006-09-26 04:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If more women were honest about just wanting a fling here and there we would be believe me!
2006-09-26 04:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought that he might have just changed his mind - or worse, found out something about you that he didn't like the sound of?
2006-09-26 04:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words so just accept that he was obviously not serious. Never mind and good luck!!
2006-09-26 04:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋