I can get on with men easily but women are hard work - they often take an instant dislike to me & the bitchiness that comes with it is just wrong. Is it just me who finds this? & if so, why??
2006-09-26 03:42:11 · 29 answers · asked by Cori 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Men are generally more chilled out and relaxed where as us women can be catty bitches who constantly tear shreads off women that are prettier/slimmer/popular than us. (examples here by the way - I hope Im not that way inclined!)
Women feel threatened when they meet a lady that they think is prettier than them and often the only way to deal with it is to be a ***** - men just dont work the same way!
I get on far better with men as well - for me I just find it a lot easier to talk to them knowing that they're not going to be slating me behind my back!
2006-09-26 03:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women at young ages seem to always compete with eachother. It may have something to do with low self esteem. Many guys are like that as well, researchers say it's due to the lack of respect, and morality in todays society. No it is not just you, if you find yourself uncomfortable when meeting women, try making fun of something stupid you had done in the past, this usually breaks the ice, and removes the edge if you are a really nice looking girl and the women you meet aren't. You won't be able to do anything about haters sweety. They are all over the place, and are probably a large portion of the reason you submitted this question.
2006-09-26 10:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by sory I offended 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are caddy, plain and simple. We find it so hard to approach other women because we are so judgemental and often insecure. We judge women without ever speaking to them by looking at their hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, posture, body language, purse, etc. etc. We are always in competition with each other and want to be better than the woman next to us. We communicate more easily with men because they are not as judgmental. Men will talk with anyone about anything. Guys are more accepting of other people, women are not. We may pretend to be but you know on the inside we are bithcing and complaining. I believe a simple smile from one woman to the next takes away a huge amount of the insecurity and attitude. A smile will let the other person know you are open to conversation and that you may not be as stuck up as the woman thinks you are!
2006-09-26 10:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but i do know i have a girlfriend (i'm a guy) that sounds just like you. I think the world of her, but as soon as i mention her to any other woman they instantly get an attitude. I have two friends and they are both women, and (by the way they are both drop dead pretty) I think the world of both of them. I have never made any passes at either one of them, or would I. I know this may sound funny, but I find their frendship a great bond between us. I have told the both of them that if they weren't my friend I would be all over them like a cheap suit. I would love nothing more than to get it on with either or both of these girls, but I can't because I know that would be the end of our relationship. Neither of these girls or should I say women have met the other. The one I'll call "T" is my best friend in this world. I can talk to this woman about anything in this world, and not have to worry about it getting out, or her trying to change my mind about what I'm doing. Everybody thinks we are having an affair, and that's just not how it is. I love her, and could fall in love with her, but I won't let that happen because I'm in love with my wife. She gets called all kinds of things like bit-h, whore, and any other name they can find, but she is far from that. She is my best friend, and I can depend on her!! My wife and I have a perfectly good relationship, and I just wish she could see my friend as she really is. Go figure?? The answer is jealiousy!! Good Luck!!
2006-09-26 11:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is something that is just happening to you!! some women are hard to get along with but most women are great to get on with. If all goes on first impresions i suppose and the old gut feeling us women have a bout people. I wouldnt worry yourself over it friends come and go good friends are harder to find.
As for the bitchiness all women have that ***** inside them and some women just cant help but to let it out hehehe
2006-09-26 10:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Secretguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to look at yourself on this one. The fact is that many people see it the opposite way. You can find a lot of people who see it your way, but that's not reality.
You really have to take a deep look at yourself and get to the bottom of it. Don't stop until you've realized something.
If you just file away the belief that women are difficult to be friends with, you're doing yourself a disservice.
It's not the women out there, it's got to do with you. Even if it does seem to be them, why are YOU attracting those sort of people around you?
2006-09-26 10:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the thing is, women are crazy. Lacking a Y chromosome has the irreversible side effect of insanity. The degrees vary, the kind of insanity differs, but it causes insanity. (Now having a Y chromosome causes stupidity, but thats another conversation.) Anyhow, these crazy women walk around and they can't stand each other and strangely enough, while women know that women are crazy, each one believes that she is the only sane one, and has a hard time dealing with the other's brand and flavor of crazy.
2006-09-26 10:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the same too - and it is so silly, especially as I am not a threat in any way. Guys are actually much easier to strike up a friendship with and they don't necessarily want any more. I think if we were more bitchy and gossipy at times it would help.
2006-09-26 10:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men arent bitchy and back stabbing. If we dont like something we will generally hit it. After we have decided who is more dominant in the group everything settles down.
Girls fit in to a group of boys better than girls because there is no conflict.
2006-09-26 10:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, i hate the bitchiness, men are easier because they are upfront. Women will talk behind your back, criticise you and generally be two faced if they feel like it. I love having a male boss because it is so easy, he asks I do and thats the end of it!!! women are suspicious of other women and their motives I think
2006-09-26 10:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Loobyloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋