I think im pregnant i dont want to tell the baby daddy he might not think i am but even if it is a baby i wouldnt care what he says.
2006-09-26 03:29:51 · 13 answers · asked by "$exie" 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I missed a period i dont know how to tell my family what i did but someway i will find out but right now the test keeps sayin im pregnant...
2006-09-26 03:41:56 · update #1
cool congrats!! its a gift from God!! ;o)
2006-09-26 03:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Marilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl... Lets take this slowly...
1) Did you miss your period? ---If no -> you're not pregnant.
---If yes -> go to step2
2) Take the pregnancy test: Its a simple urine test. If you don't wanna go to the doc, there are several easy to use home testing kits available in the market.
3) If its negative --> wait for your next period
->> if you get it ->You're not pregnant.
->>IF you DONT --> repeat pregnancy test.
NOW --> If the pregnancy test is postiive,
a) TELL the baby's daddy. Now you need not spring it up on him suddenly out of the blue --- prepare him first -- sit him down, tell him you have something to tell him, and gently break the news that you're going to have his baby Yay!!
He needs to hear it from you, so he can support you and the baby and be there for you both. And he deserves to know --- gently. If he's reluctant to accept it, give him a little time... but dont let him shirk his duty.
Heyy ---- watch the movie 'Nine Months' -- its a cool comedy about a female who gets pregnant and the baby's father (Hugh Grant) is a commitment-phobe. And maybe it'll give you a few ideas on how to break the news to him!! :-D
2006-09-26 10:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jest21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you miss your period, take a test and make sure your are for sure before you say anything. If your not you don't want to scare him off for good or cause any problems. If he is a good guy he will be there if not, oh well. I had a kid young, without the father and my kid turned out just fine. Keep your head up!
2006-09-26 10:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bridget H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do, would be to find out. Then you can just show him the test if you think he will not believe you. If you are not, you should really think about your choice in men. I can't imagine telling my husband I thought I was preggers and him saying "Huh uhh!" Try to work this out before baby comes. Good luck.
2006-09-26 10:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all congrats! It in ur interest to tell ur child's father but for the benefit of the baby it would really be nice on ur part to tell ur child's father. Atleast inform him abt ur pregnacy, even if u dont want him to have any relationship with u!
2006-09-26 10:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure, u dun wanna worry or get the guy excited from the thought of a baby for no reason...
2006-09-26 10:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you taken a pregnancy test yet? That's the only way to know for sure. Congrats and good luck!
2006-09-26 10:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ms M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, what's the question??? It would be good if you made a test to see if you really are pregnant, if you are you can tell the father, just if you want.
2006-09-26 10:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Eri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats if you are! Did you take a test yet? Let us know! :) Good luck! Sprinkle some baby dust my way please lol I would tell him right away AFTER you find out for sure. Don't wait, he might get upset you waited.
2006-09-26 10:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say anything until you know for sure. But really let him know - it's his child as well. If he doesn't want to have the child then by all means part ways and raise your child to the best of your ability.
2006-09-26 10:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to ur doctor and get it confirmed. then tell the dad then ur parents.
2006-09-26 11:13:50 · answer #11 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋