We can not say when and where the love come up. A man who lives with his wife for 10 or 15 years he feels nothing except some attraction to her but sometimes, when he met a girl in the bustand or railway station sudden he feels love, an attraction which click from the heart. With out knowing her name, without knowing her cast, nation..... Why? can you tell me ..
2006-09-26 03:20:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Although love at first site does occur, it is very rare these days. Love is a learned response, God gave to us the ability to reason, also allowing us to have free will. If noone ever hugged you, or told you they loved you. If you have never been nurtured, or comforted, you wouldn't even know to ask this question. So before man was able to say " I love you " ! He had to learn what love is ! Don't confuse the knowledge with neurological response, you must combine the two to have true love. Which is to say, attraction is a neurological response to a release of pheromones in the body. True love is knowing the person who makes those little pheromones release in you !
2006-09-26 03:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by sory I offended 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a guy feels when he sees an unknown girl at a railway station is attraction. It may turn to love over a period of time. And love has no reason. Sure some chemicals react within our body and act on our mind to produce the feeling of love. But even pundits can't answer why.
2006-09-26 06:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I can tell you. What feel when you first see a girl in the bus-stand or railway station is pure attraction. Do you know what love at first sight is? It's the initial attraction you feel towards someone.
You are attracted because of the way she looks, the way she is standing/sitting/doing something, the way she is wearing her clothes, her hair, her lips, her body, the she just looked at you, or her smile, or the way she speaks over her phone...she was someone... she had something...
We all want someone and somethng we can never have...that's love.
No you cannot control love. You either enjoy it, or suffer from it. You decide
A friend
2006-09-26 03:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that feeling is love so much as longing. Longing for what could have been or what might be. People tend to want what they think they can't have. Sometimes they interpret that as love, but I think love is a much more powerful and rare emotion than people give it credit for.
2006-09-26 03:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is impossible to control love; i agree with that. but what u have mentioned here is not love at all. its lust or just an attraction. because a real love comes up not by meeting someone; it could come up even without seeing someone.
2006-09-26 21:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot LOVE someone you just look at at a bus station.
2006-09-26 04:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is motherly love daghter love combined pure love mixed with responsibilty family honor. its real. god formula sex. for only children. its beyond attraction. your is infatuation lust. that is bad. bad attracts initially the dump into dustbin. aids is waiting outside. takecare
2006-09-26 09:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by meenakshim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr Pramod, Everytime u talk about new love, isn't it just a lust?? and you are married what can you do about love?that's kind of infatuation not love..
2006-09-26 04:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be not actually from heart.If it is really then deffinately it is LOVE .Then may be your first choice is wrong.If it is not then you should not feel love at her or him.At that time you should remember your partener if you are loving him or her.
2006-09-26 03:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really we can not say when the love come up .if you see a smilinging flower suddenly can you feel love ?
2006-09-26 05:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by pramod_bhikhampur p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋