my boyfreind moved out last week. i cant sleep without him usually , because i am used to having him there, i past out last night after he came to visit me, and i honestly did not here my phone, i had had it on vibrate,. when he came to visit me, i told him that i miss him at night and i was actually depressed and crying all day . when i finally answered the phone he b;ew up on me and said that it was all bullshit that i tell him that i cant sleep with out him, and its all fake? wtf? it is true why is he doing this?
2006-09-26 03:13:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why did he move out?? does he want to be with you I mean seriously dont get hurt in the long run he doesnt sound as if he is there for you to the fullest and if he cant understand your feelings now do you want to feel this way for the rest of your life I hope its no look inside yourself youll see the way !
good luck for now get a cat or dog or even a BIG PILLOW lol time will heal it
2006-09-26 03:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have moved out for a reason, & you didn't say, so I have to assume that it is due to troubles in your relationship.
It also sounds like you haven't ended the relationship, but just decided to live apart.
Its understandable under those circumstances why you would be depressed. Combine that with any unresolved issues & then it would be understandable why he is snapping at you.
So many couple these days think that if they skip on the wedding vows that they can save themselves a lot of problems, but look at you. You two are acting like a married couple that has decided to separate.
If you are determined to make your relationship with him work, then you may want to consider some marriage councelling.
Whether you decide to completely end it or not you & your boyfriend have unresolved issues, you need to work on them either with or without him.
2006-09-26 10:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is very hard to fall asleep when he is not there and the sleep you get is obviously not the best sleep when he is not there, but of course you get some sleep, otherwise you would be a walking zombie by now! Why is he still calling you and caring about what you do when he has moved out of the home you shared? You can't have your cake and eat it too. He's either with you, or not with you.
2006-09-26 10:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that he broke up with you, because it doesn't really say that. I'm sure you have a lot more things going on than just losing sleep, so I'm not really sure if I can help you. But from what you've stated it sounds like he doesn't want to feel bad about his decisions, so he's convincing himself that there are no consequences - you losing sleep and crying.
Like I said though, there are other issues that you're going to need to deal with now, so I'm not sure this helps.
2006-09-26 10:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by jillymack06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he move out? Did you guys break up? I know exactly what you are talking about! My boyfriend moved out before too (he now lives with me again) and I is really hard to adjust once your used to having someone you love not sleeping with you everynight! He might think you had someone with you when you didnt answer your phone ( mine thought that sometimes) you need to tell him how you feel, and how much you need him with you ( if you want him to move back it) and try to prove to him that you are not seeing somebody else and having other men staying with you, try telling him that he can stop over ANYTIME and see for himself, he probally miss's you just as much as you miss him!
Good Luck!!
2006-09-26 10:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by ?rukkaloca24? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a very caring boyfreind if you ask me. Let him think your fine even if you aren't if he moved out you may need to realize he doesn't want to b with you and as much as it hurts you need to pick yourself up and move on - you may get a pet like a dog or a cat to snuggle with in the meantime
2006-09-26 10:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to make you feel guilty. Forget about him - he sounds like a total loser - and move on with your life. From personal experience, you'll get used to sleeping alone, will build up your self confidence again with a bit of time and you'll meet someone 1000 times better than him!
2006-09-26 10:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is more issues than you are telling us. You would have to speak with him about it. Don't leave your phone on vibrate.
2006-09-26 10:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's B/Sing you. Don't mope over spilled milk. Believe me, he's spilling his milk all elswhere.
You need to be crying whilst getting your needs met by someone else. I'm talking about a pleasurable moan.
2006-09-26 10:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got trust issues within himself. You tell him to work those out and come back when he's ready to trust you (as long as you don't give any reason for him not to trust you) Give him time.
2006-09-26 10:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋