OK MY BOYFRIEND DON'T TRUST ME HE SAY HE DO BUT HE DON'T EVERYTIME I GO SOME WHERE OR ON DA WITH SOMEBODY BESIDEZ HIM HE ALWAYZ THINK I'M CHEATIN.I MEAN I LOVE 2 DEATH HE DA ONLY BOI I WANT 2 BE WITH BUT SHOULD I STAY WITH HIM OR LEAVE???????
2006-09-26 03:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by Dymechick A*K*A Asberry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave him.....it will only get worse.
2006-09-26 03:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by New Rider of the purple sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be with him, try to work it out. After I went through an incident with my b/f, I didn't trust him either but he was patient with me and constantly put faith in me that he was not cheating. If he left the house, he told me where he was going, how long he would be, what he was doing and when he would be back. Yes it got on his nerves, but I was insecure and he had to prove his trust. He hated telling me everywhere he was going and everything he was doing, but he wanted to be with me so he tried to make it work and ultimately he has earned my trust. He did what he said and he came home when he said he would. He made it work. After earning my trust, I cut him some slack and the relationship went much smoother. You have to ask yourself if you are willing to do these same things just to earn his trust. My b/f thought it was worth it, but is it worth it for YOU to go through all of this? You have to make that decision. If he's not worth it, then leave.
2006-09-26 03:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. Are you sure he really loves you? Maybe he is insecure because he always thinks your cheating on him. Some guys are really over protective. In a relationship there should be compromise. Good relationships are hard, you have to work at it. Think about the pros and cons about your relationship then decide if you should stay or leave. Good luck!
2006-09-26 03:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one of the biggest things in a relationship, besides sex and money, If he doesn't trust you now he never will. I am sorry to tell you this but get rid of him before he causes you more pain. I know there is someone good for you out there, Someone who will trust you and love you they way you deserve to be. Have faith in yourself girl! You deserve better than what he is giving you!Take care and good luck!
2006-09-26 03:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is insecure, or your behavior is inappropriate for a girl who has a boyfriend. Are you making him insecure, wearing revealing clothing when you are not with him, being flirtatious etc.?
If you are not causing his insecurity I say run for the hills, if you are then regroup and show your mate that you respect your relationship.
2006-09-26 03:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and communication. Don't have it. He needs to work on his trust issues. Not much fun for either one of you. Keep doing your thing and let him work out his own issues. If he can't handle it, then thats his problem, not yours.
2006-09-26 03:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats annoying and childish. It depends on how he treats you when he gets that way but id say leave cause it will get worse.
2006-09-26 03:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is simple if u know that he loves u then i think u should try and earn his trust.or u can do like i did and get my friends to tell him that u really love him and exaggerate about how u talk about him.
2006-09-27 03:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by *~Camry Kamariona~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the biggest thing in any relationship,,so no trust no relationship
2006-09-26 03:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust why stay
2006-09-26 03:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by miss_taurus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
2006-09-26 03:17:38 · answer #11 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋