i cant tell what happen!! but
all i know is they laugh at me!!
and i get embarrass!! what should i do??
2006-09-26 03:09:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Trivia
u just laugh wid them....thrs no other way!! just show them tat u r not at all affected....let them laugh....automatically after sum days they'll stop laughing at u seeing tat ur not at all affected!! I THINK THIS IS DA ONLY WAY........SO JUST TRY IT OUT DEAR!
2006-09-26 03:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are laughing at you to get you to feel bad, then that is wrong and hurtful, but it happens. If they laugh at you, understand there must have been something funny (maybe not exactly to you), so laugh with them. It isnt as "hurtful" funny to them anymore if you are part of the joke.
Also, if you can laugh at yourself, then you will always have a great send of humor.
Ok, I am not sure if my philosophy in life will help, but here it goes.
You have control over your emotions, your feelings. Dont let them take control. You decide if you want to be happy or sad, angry or joyful. By them laughing at you and you feeling embarassed, you have given them power over your emotions. Why would you give anyone that power? Just like if your dog pee'd on the carpet, you get mad at the dog. Well if it is for more then just the "BAD DOG!" and rubbing the dogs nose in it, then you have just given control of your emotions to a DOG! He doesnt have the right to control your emotions.
Be confident. Be in control
If they are laughing with you or at you, it is up to you to respond the way you want to
2006-09-26 10:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are different, people will sometimes laugh at you, or poke fun at you, because they are lacking in 'people-handling' skills, or they are thoughtless.
The best thing to do is to figure out WHY they are laughing at you, then if it is something significant, change it if possible. If it is just because they are 'different' than you are, hold your head up, smile, and ignore them completely, since they are being childish.
2006-09-26 10:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh with them. They see that it gets to you and it embarrasses you. Don't let them see that it bothers you any more and they will quit. Bully's feed off your embarrassment. Stand up for your self or brush it off and tell them to grow up.
or wait until they mess up or do something less than perfect......laugh....laugh.....laugh....laugh your a$$ off at them and return that wonderful favor of laughter.
2006-09-26 10:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Krazy K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U can't tell what happened in obviously it's gotta be something bad then i will probably laugh at u as well!!!!we can't help if we don't know what type of situation you dealin with,feel me!!!be more specific
2006-09-26 10:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by BRIKZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing what you were doing to make them laugh at you.
2006-09-26 14:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a big deal out of it. Get them started talking about something else.
2006-09-26 10:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be they are not laughing at you , may be you just thinking so. get over it.
2006-09-26 10:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
laugh back at them. act like you don't care...
2006-09-26 10:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋