2006-09-26 03:04:52 · 3 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well to be honest, you really do know if you love someone. When they enter a room your heart leaps. If you want them so badly and you are not a couple, you will feel both euphoric and depressed simultaneously, because you're so happy to see them, and so devastated that they are not yours. You will think of them every minute of the day, and feel incredibly sad that you do not have them in your arms. You will want to hold her, or kiss her, or just hold her hand. If your feelings are purely sexual it isn't love. You should be content just with her company.
If you are with her, you will feel overjoyed everytime she calls you or texts you. You will be constantly awaiting any contact with her. You will think of her all day, and see things she would like and want her to have them. If someone walks past wearing her perfume you will think of her and miss her. Whenever you see her you will want to hold her. You will want to protect her at any cost.
Whether you are with her or not you would be willing to die for her. You would want to marry her or spend your whole life with her, maybe have kids with her, be happy to never have any other partner again, to come home to her everyday, to tell her everything about you, even your deepest darkest secrets.
If not, I guess you don't love her after all.
As for whether you will end up with a girl you love, there is no knowing what the universe has in store for you. Make your move, for your chances are minimal if she does not know how you feel. Prepare yourself for the worst, and if the best happens, hallelujah! If the worst happens, maybe she'll change her mind and fate will bring you together, or maybe she is not the one after all, and your true love is still waiting.
2006-09-26 08:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st i would like to say that both answers are great and i really think they should be both picked as best answers if possible ..
and if I can add to this i would say .. you should wait and spend more time with her and see if you still feel the same way after you got to know her and saw what is under the shell you fisrt encountered .. if she is true then you are gonna find the same beautiful thing you liked .. maybe something even more beautiful .. if not .. and you kept making these excuses for her .. trying to convince yourself that you are ok with her character flaws ..then she is not the one
also you constatly have this feeling of the need to protect her .. not hurt her feelings or make her feel bad at any cost .. even if it was on the expense of your feelings .. you make the hard decissions for her .. because you dont want her to feel any regret
you never ask her more than what she can give .. and you always feel satisfied with her .. and it never crosses your mind that she is not worth it ..
you always feel that she is affraid to lose you although you did nothing to make her feel this way .. yet you are not annoyed .. on the contrary you feel like huging her to make her feel safe and she could never lose you
your mind never put obstacles to stop you from loving her .. because she completes you .. she makes you laugh .. she says stuff that keeps you intersted and she worries about you
you are not affraid of seeing the future with her .. because you can't imagine one without her .. and instead of thinking .. im willing to lose the whole world to be with her .. you think im willing to gain the whole world for her
and many other stuff man .. just remember it is not easy to find someone that really makes you feel whole .. just don't waste it .. before it is too late ..
good luck with her
2006-09-26 22:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by mango 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happens unless you make it happen. You need to get to know her very well before you "know" that she is your "true love". A relationship is something you have to work at. Both of you. It's not about infatuation. Unless you know this girl very well, you won't know if she is worthy of being your "true love".
I guess what I am saying is you can't just "know" by the feeling you get when you look at her from across the room. That's infatuation.
2006-09-26 10:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋