2006-09-26 02:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Lean Bean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are worth more that that and your kids will grow up thinking well if dad does it, this is how i should treat my partner and the cycle will never end it will be very hard but you dint need the stress of it and you could do alot better than that poor excuse of a man
2006-09-26 02:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by moccaebby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its hard to get a really good judgement when u dont know all the facts but I can say that if you aint happy Dont do yourself the injusice of staying together for the childrens sake....unless you want to teach them that making yourself miserable is a good thing to do.
Try counseling and if he wont go than he really doesnt deserve a wonderful person like you!
2006-09-26 02:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by loose kannen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Do you want your kids to act like that towards you or their life partners. I had to get out of a mentally and physically abusive relationship. The hardest part was taking my son away from his daddy but I realized I did not want him to grow up thinking that was the way to act. Just leave.
2006-09-26 02:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by legalbambino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling. You by no means want your children growing up and thinking that this is normal and acceptable. If he refuses to go to college, get a divorce. The children are the most important in all of this.
2006-09-26 02:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek out counseling. If you want to make this work, you need a third party that is not your family or friend to step in and help. If that still doesn't work then you should remove yourself and children from the situation. Nobody needs that in their life!
2006-09-26 02:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not stay in a abusive relationship for any reason as a matter of fact the children would be the very reason i would leave they learn what they live no matter what we tell them about right and wrong
2006-09-26 02:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this one,but are looking for an easy answer. These things do not get better unless you do something about it.
2006-09-26 02:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by peckerwud2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad for the kids.
2006-09-26 02:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR CHILDREN ARE LEARNING THE ABUSE YOU ARE RECEIVING.
2006-09-26 02:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two need counceling
2006-09-26 02:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by lil kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋