2006-09-26 02:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Rape is a crime of violence and is about control - don't confuse this with sex. Most of the men who rape boys identify as straight - many are married with children of their own.
No, a sexual assault will not change your orientation. If you were already gay, you'll stay gay; and if you were already straight, you'll stay straight.
There is evidence that children who are repeatedly abused grow up to become offenders themselves - you should receive counseling about your own situation to ensure that doesn't happen to you.
Sorry to hear that you were victimized in this way.
2006-09-26 03:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you had been taken advantage of. Every person deserves to have a normal sex life which means having a chance to develop interests and experiences that are age appropriate with others our own age. If you feel secure about it and won't be to embarrassed you need to report your rape or seduction to authorities if the person that did it to you was an adult. You need to realize that when you where seduced, tricked into sex, or raped that it was not your fault and you have nothing to feel guilty about. Young boys and Teens are easily aroused and therefore easily raped, or seduced. If you do not wish to report it feel free to get counseling so that you can gain some skills to deal with the feelings. You will not be come gay because you had this unfornate experience nor are you gay because you had an orgasm during this experience. As for seducing younger boys you need to keep repeating what I said earlier. Every boy or child deserves to grow up safe and develope sexually within their own rate and stages. If you have younger boys that come to you for advice it is possible to answer all their questions about sex, masturbation, and puberty without touching them, seeing them naked, or having them see your penis. Also, learn to recognize when you are getting aroused and if a conversation or presence with a younger boy arouses you then excuse yourself, masturbate as needed, and then make sure that you are never in alone with that boy. You will out grow that urge. Good luck. If you have more questions feel free to ask and I will look for your questions. You are really okay. As for the person who raped you or tricked you into sex at 16 and at 8 avoid them and at some point in time tell them that you did not appreciate what they did even if you did climax.
2006-09-26 11:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were raped, it's not your fault.
You wont be gay unless you like doing things with males.
You won't do those things to other people as long as you know it's wrong.
You wouldn't want someone else to feel the way you did about it, right?
So as long as you remind yourself of that, you have nothing to worry about. :)
2006-09-26 15:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no child should have ever had this happen to them, people who do this should be locked away for a long time, sorry this has happened to you, but be strong, i believe you know what this has effected you, you wont let this happen to your friends, and no you wont be like that, what you decide in life for yourself will be your decision only, good luck in the future..Alan
2006-09-26 10:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Alan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry man.
What some other bastard did to you does not change who you are. It is your choice alone whether you will be straight or not and if you will do the same to other boys.
2006-09-26 09:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by TheDementedMule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TheDementedMule' is correct! I am also sorry for what has happened to you. I hope that the legal system has done you Justice!
2006-09-26 10:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋