ok well there is this boy and he acts like he hates me now but me and him use to be best friends and hang out all the time until i got a boyfriend and now we not even talk anymore. he was like my brother and he knew everything about me and i knew everything about him and we were really close then when i started dating my boyfriend we didnt hang out as much or talk as much but now he acts like he doesnt even like me and he doesnt talk to me or anything i miss being his best friend and i want things back to normal what do i do ???
HELP
kayla marie
2006-09-26 02:15:20 · 18 answers · asked by kayla marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe he liked you and is mad that your with someone else
2006-09-26 02:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ssoroka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me his feelings for you were more than friendship. The only thing you can do is talk to him; tell him you miss having him around. I am almost positive that he will come around; just give him some time. How would you feel if the person you had feelings for was dating someone else? Its not your fault, I don't mean it that way; just saying if he has feelings for you and you are dating some other guy that has got to sting a little. Just talk to him and go from there.
2006-09-26 09:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe he had more than "friends" feelings for you whether he realized it or not. Maybe he was hoping your friendship would develop into something more. Or maybe he's just jealous of the time you once spent with him being spent with someone else. You two sure need to talk about this. It would be a shame to lose a good friend.
2006-09-26 09:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was never just a friend if this is his reaction to you having a boyfriend that its obvious what he wanted from you now you have to decide which is more important him or your boyfriend if it's him than you will have to leave your man and ask out this friend however we always want what we can't have so beware it may just be the challenge he likes.
2006-09-26 09:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy looked at you as more than a friend...This guy loved you, and I'm guessing he didn't let you know that...Now that you have a boyfriend, He's just jealous...If you wanna be friends with him again, talk to him, ask him why he ignores you now, and if and when he says it's bcause he liked you, let him know that you had no idea, and he should've let you know that...But now you have a boyfriend and it's too late...Tell him you just wanna be friends again, and see what comes of it.
2006-09-26 09:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will always be hard to have guy friends while you have a significant other. If you wish to keep both then try introducing them to each other and letting them be friends, that way your bf sees that there is no 'competition' and your friend still gets to be your friend.
your friend is probably hurt because you dumped him in a sense. Call him up or send him a letter and tell him how you feel.
2006-09-26 09:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by catsrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to talk to him. Maybe he liked you and always hoped you'd end up together and now that you have a boyfriend he doesn't see that happeneing. Maybe he secretly loves you but could never tell you so he became your friend praying it would end up as more.It didn't ,he's hurt, and he finds it hard to talk to you. especially if he thinks you'll talk about you boyfriend.
2006-09-26 09:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same situation happen to me a while back. Just go on with you life and don't bother him. It sounds cruel, but it's for the best. Maybe he'll talk to you again one day.
2006-09-26 09:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by animeprincess64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just trying talking to him and see why you all dont talk or hang out as much as you used to and try and fix your problem
2006-09-26 09:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by †Emily† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like HE wanted to be your boyfriend, and now that he feels like his chances are ruined, he's lost hope.
2006-09-26 09:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ithink u should call the person and talk with him and i also think that ur friend did not move away from u but want that u could live ur life
2006-09-26 09:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋