My husband wants me to believe that he did nothing at a strip club with a nude woman for a 1/2 hour and expects me to buy it. I know men who have gone to such places and for that length of time they say he at least recieved a bj. Plus, why else would men put out $150 or more if it were just an "extended" lap dance as my husband would like me to believe?
2006-09-26 02:08:36 · 25 answers · asked by mob65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with you. Ask him (sweetly) to take you next time. After all, if nothing is going on or would happen, he should have no problem with u going along. (watch the look on his face when you ask to go LOL)
2006-09-26 02:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stuff like that really doesn't happen all the time and lonely guys only do things like that. Plus the rumors start from insecure guys trying to save face to their friends to explain there reasoning for spending $150 for a 30 minute lap dance.
2006-09-26 02:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was a stripper, and i can tell you right now, that it really all depends on the girl and what country he was in. and if he spent $150 most of that goes to the house, and the dancer gets some $. and if he was in Canada, i hear that goes on all the time. but if your husband says, that nothing happened, then believe him. because if he is wanting to loose you over a dancer at a club, then HE is the one being worked over for money, those girls have a job to do, make money. and apparently, she did that.
2006-09-26 02:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your husband lied to you and it is as clear as the nose on your face . He thinks you will believe anything he tells you watch him very carefully you could be headed to the halls of justice to seek a divorce. Ask him which is more important his family or the strip club and if he still wants to go to the clubs,then you and your children move out and let him find out what is truly important in life.
2006-09-26 02:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating! Ask your husband how he can hold you in such low regard? He promised to love you in good times and bad, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health till DEATH do you part. You didn't sign on to get poorer because of his lust! That money he put out for the lap dance was your money too, so ask him where your lap dance is! (and NO I don't mean the lapdance from the skank he got one from!)
2006-09-26 02:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need confirmation from any of us your house is on fire .put it out anyway you can.you seem so worried about your hubby getting a bj or the ultimate works,this in my estimation should not be your ultimate worry.worry about the kind of man who would leave his wife and spend unexplained amounts of time with a strange woman.
worry about a man who spends the families resources on such foolishness,worry about a man whose moral compass is so screwed up he goes in any direction.then look at yourself and your children and ask yourself if this is where you want to be.
2006-09-26 02:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, in my book it's cheating. If it was a one time thing, it might be able to slide, but if it's been a three of four thing, then oh boy. Talk to him and see what he's problem is. Why would you want to go to a strip club, if you have a wife at home and she can please you anyway you want. Seriuosly. Let him sleep on the couch tonight.
2006-09-26 02:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by rock101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts on this are simple why is he spending 150.00 at a strip club and not putting the money in the home? Sounds to me like this man has a few issiues starting with prioities.
2006-09-26 02:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if he got an extended lap dance or a bj or even had sex with the heffa? You're still his wife. It's a stripper for crying out loud; they don't count!
2006-09-26 02:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very open minded..Going to a strip club once in awhile is one thing....Spending $150.00 in a room with a naked stripper is another.....That is cheating, in my opionion even a lap dance is cheating. Get rid of him girl
2006-09-26 02:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they think we are stupid, don't they?HOwever, I would not argue with him because of a naked woman. I mean, do not leave him because of her. He may love you but he may have found some excitement by being with her. Why don't you PRETEND you are like her for one day or one night and make it even more exciting to him? Maybe he found in her what he can not find when he is with you. Sorry, but sometimes guys are like that. This could become a challenge for you. If you fight with him and leave him, you may regret for the rest of your life. Good luck
2006-09-26 02:14:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋