this happend to me once before and i froze up i dont want to flip out but what is a rational way to go about handeling this?
2006-09-26 02:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by peachypeach746 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i was at church when this happend in the nursury with my nephew when this boy that i didnt even know came in and asked for my # I said no and when i got up to walk away he hit my butt twice , i froze up because this i sthe 2nd time this has happend to me at church my little brother who is 12 hit the boy who i thinki s 15 or 16 and the boy finaly left but he kept coming back in when my little brother left i don't know why this keeps happening to me , but what can i do if it happende again with minamal drame , because after all this usually happends in church
2006-09-27 02:37:13 · update #1
If it is someone you know, just calmly tell then that you don't like it, and that they should please not do it again.
If it is someone you don't know (in a bus) say really loudly "DON'T EVER TOUCH MY BODY AGAIN, YOU CREEP, OR I'LL CALL THE POLICE!"
Don't worry about making a fuss, or having other people look at you - the creep who slapped you didn't worry, did he? You'll be doing other women a favour, too, that's for sure.
2006-09-26 02:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by gellhorn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You leave too much to our imaginations.
Is it a friend of yours? Is it a friend of your hubby or boyfriend? Is it a stranger?
I had a 'work acquaintance' slap my behind once, just to see what I'd do, and he was the one that was surprised when I slapped his behind too.
The guys at one place I worked used to try shock the women by giving them 'nutters', (it's the act of grabbing and shaking their crotch at people). It was done to me and I kind of ignored it until the guy walked by me again. I jumped out from behind the machine I was running and yelled his name and when he turned around, I gave him a female version of a nutter. He walked away with his jaw on the floor and everyone laughing at his reaction to my 'nutter'. It was later dubbed as my 'Madonna' impersonation.
If it's a stranger that does this, (with or without a punch in the gut), inform him that you're less than happy with his touching you and he could become fully aware of what 'sexual harassment' means quickly unless he keeps his hands to himself.
2006-09-26 02:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to clearly define your boundaries and tell that person you will not tolerate that kind of behavior. If he is the kind of person that such an action would suggest, he may laugh about it. But stand firm. You teach people to treat you the way you want to be treated.
2006-09-26 02:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Slap him in his face, tell him loudly to leave you alone. Embarrass him.
It is YOUR body.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 02:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he does it again your boyfriend will return thr favor !
2006-09-26 05:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know ive been there too...say dont touch me again"
2006-09-26 02:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him and all his friends. Now.
2006-09-26 02:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
a simple "thank you" would be appropriate.
2006-09-26 02:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by jay-z 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋