i know i cant take the morning after pill as it only works after 3 days so what do i do now ?? i dont want any lectures or ppl tellin me in silly or whatever i know that...plz just help me
2006-09-26 01:56:11 · 24 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
obviously you are not mature enough to have sex.
what do you mean you JUST found out he ejaculated? girl, you should have known that the moment it happened. so your just worried about pregnancy? what about diseases? diseases that could possibly kill you??
obviously you are not mature enough to have sex.
2006-09-26 02:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by SallyC 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wait, and don't have unprotected sex until you want to get pregnant. Also, if you do have unprotected sex in the future, take the morning after pill even if ejaculation did not occur as you can get pregnant from 'pre-***'. If it turns out that you are not pregnant, please look into some other forms of birth control like the pill. You can get this from planned parenthood without the knowledge or consent of your parents. (if you happen to be younger and in a situation where you don't want them to know) Unwanted pregnancy is better left unexperienced.
2006-09-26 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, some of these people can be so harsh. I'm not here to judge you, just offer some advice. First of all, shame on your boyfriend for just now telling you! Second, all you can do is wait. Wait for your period or pregnancy symptoms to come. If all is clear then I would suggest birth control. It's really an effective method. Beware of your boyfriend's intentions because that is what my brother-in-law did to his wife. He would ejaculate in her but he would lie about it, some women know and some don't, just depends. Anyways, she got pregnant and he later admitted to wanting a baby. Just use protection...better safe than sorry I always say!
2006-09-26 06:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you were in your ovulating period, then there's the probability that you are getting pregnant. Now just on a note, pre-ejaculation also contains sperm, so it doesn't matter if does not ejaculate in you. Use a condom and start taking the pill as another measurement against pregnancy. It's for your own good, it sounds like you do not want a kid right now, so that's just my suggestion, and Good Luck!
2006-09-26 02:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've thought about protection first, not what you can do 4 days later - because even had your boyfriend not ejaculated in you - there are pre-ejaculation fluids that contain sperm that could still make you pregnant. All you can do now is wait and see what happens, and hopefully remember that next time before having sex that protection has to come first - you may want to look into getting on an oral contraceptive so you'll always be protecting yourself.
2006-09-26 02:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angelina 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes, you may have to play the waiting game on this one for a little bit. Don't freak out thought. For people who actually attempt to conceive a child, it takes some several months. not everyone gets pregnant from one instance. But if you can and want to find out before your next period, wait at least a week and then go for a blood test. otherwise you are going to have to wait until you expect your next period to take a home test. the blood test are really accurate...they detect even really small pregnancy hormone levels (called HCG). I'm not sure exactly how old you are but please protect yourself from now on, especially if you arent ready to be a mommy. I'm not here to lecture you at all but just be careful sweets.
2006-09-26 02:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by missdarkstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
elshadon took the words right out of my mouth!! You just found out he came??? Can you not feel it?!! Well, childbirth should be a snap, then!! Ha Ha....Sorry, I couldn't help to tease a little! You aren't silly sweetie; it's called irresponsible! And immature; and this isn't a lecture, it's the hard truth!! Just remember, abortion is murder!!! You have to face your responsibility, and not run away from it!! You were capable of having sex; so now you are capable of facing the consequences of your actions!! Happy parenting!!!
2006-09-26 02:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About all you can do now is wait for about 3 weeks and take a pegnancy test. then decide the best course of action. just remember worrying about the past willnot change it. While you wait though you could have that discussion with the "friend" about due consideration Yeah I know he's a guy and we don't think much past self gratification but some of us were born with a real brain also. best of luck reaper out........
2006-09-26 02:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, nothing can turn back time,darling.
If your period comes round nicely in time next mth, you've got nothing to worry about. But if you missed next mth try the kit and ask your gynae and go on from there. Nothing to worry about. Take care and talk to your boyfriend bout this. Let him know of your worries. Don't shy away from him.Both of you should go thru this together.
2006-09-26 02:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by robbiereigns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you expect him not to or something? Unless you are taking any preventative pills I, I would consider a trip to planned parenthood, and he might want to head to rite aid. Buy a big box, I doubt you'll be quitting that fun any time soon.
2006-09-26 02:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by mranswerguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, go to a family planning clinic. You need some answers, and FAST! Good luck and if it's a girl, name her after me! Condoms are wonderful devices. Find some, use them.
2006-09-26 02:20:20 · answer #11 · answered by mindrizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋