i was really happy with my boyfriend but latly he has changed.... he is so different, i want to b wiv him but i dont ... and i no this is stupid but if i wasnt with him i couldnt bare for him to be with another girl and i would miss him so much....what shall i do?
2006-09-26 01:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do not stay with him just because you are insecure and don't want him to be with another girl. You deserve the best and if he isn't the best for you, then let him go. Be yourself, no one can tell you that you are doing it wrong. There are men out there that will love you for who you are!!!
Go Find them....
2006-09-26 01:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by autumn67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation. When you notice he is acting differently, something is obviously wrong. A womans intuition is great! Most of the time when we feel something its best to go with it. If you feel he has changed he probably has and you need to determine if he's still what you want. Talk to him about the situation because it may be something you guys can work on. Don't let your friends make the decision for you. Only you know whats best for you. And just as you worry about him being with another persom he will do the same, but life goes on. You will find someone else to be happy with, so don't compromise yourself just because you don't want to see him with another girl.
2006-09-26 01:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be in a relationship like yours and i stayed with him for 7 years hoping things would improve but they didn't. i got up the courage and ended it and in the beginning it was really hard, i missed him and had to endure seeing him with other girls that i knew to be friends but i got through it and now im settled with a guy who loves me and would bend over backward to make me happy. its not an easy road but i think you'd be better off in the long run because maybe the time and attention your investing in this guy is not being returned. There is a Mr right out there for you, the hard part is wadding your way through all the Mr wrongs on the way there. Be strong and be selfish, think what you want from a relationship and go get it. My thoughts are with you.
2006-09-26 02:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so happy whats the problem people change it's what they do core charicteristics don't change and you are suppose to fall in love with those core traits if all the things you love about him are different then you fell in love with the wrong aspects I hope these changes are for the better if not maybe he hasn't changed maybe you have perhaps you are growing stronger and more mature and he's not either way I wish you the best it doesn't matter what your friends want what do you want?
2006-09-26 01:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you could not bare for him to be with another girl but what other girl would put up with him find you someone who treats you good before you waste to much of your life on this one guy life is to short to be unhappy let him see what A good thing he had and lost be strong girl let his *** go.
2006-09-26 02:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you. Others can voice their opinion, but the fact of the matter is that it's still your decision. I'd say not to give up on it so easily, try your best to see what the problem is. Then do what you need to from there. Don't drive yourself bonkers.
Best Wishes
2006-09-26 01:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, and this is not stupid. Your heart will break if your not with him && he is with another girl, its not really jealousy but then again it is.. I wouldnt say it is, because you do still want to be with him. Just give it time, and explain to him how you can realize his changes and see how is goes!
Best wishes!
2006-09-26 02:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only u can truly answer that. If your young then step away, meet other guys and enjoy yourself. You can't continue to wonder or be bothered if he's going to be with someone else. Perhaps he wants to move on and that is why your getting mix signals from him.
2006-09-26 01:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural for you to not want him to be with someone else but if you know you deserve better then get out now, It's only going to get worse, atleast you can see it.
2006-09-26 01:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has that feeling where you dont want your partner with anyone else but once your happy you wont even think of it anymore
2006-09-26 01:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋