It always seems to happen to me. There is my friend, who is one of my best guy friends, he always knows when to make me happy and cheer me up when im down. Then there is my brother's friend, who is always there for me and loves me to death cause he is basically my bro. I have known him since i was little. Well he doesnt even know my best guy friend, but he doesnt like him cause me and my best guy friend have been "talking". What should i do about this, because i am not going t turn against my best guy friend or my "bro". I need some advice here.
2006-09-26 01:49:32 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep ur realationships and dont chnage them. ur "bro" should be able to understand that if u say friendship, u mean friendship. why dont u make him understand, that u will be happy if he accepts ur guy friend, as a friend. if he cares for u, he should learn to trust u.
2006-09-26 01:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by sabinaauchi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not DAT good in situations like this but my best advice is 2 talk 2 ur "bro" bout how u still care 4 him as much as u care 4 ur guy friend. He needs 2 understand dat there r other people care bout u and u care 4 other people and mayb he might understand. U need 2 get ur "bro" 2 actually meet and get 2 knoww each other. U kno all i can say is guys r guys and they will b this way.
2006-09-26 02:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy who is considered your "bro" may be just that. He might be a little over protective of you because he has known you for so long. But, be careful if feelings are there or may fester. These types of things get messy. Make sure whatever decision you make that the friendship that you share with your "bro" doesn't get compromised just because someone new is in the picture. Also, if your "bro" cannot be happy and support you in the decisions that you make - there might be other motives. Be careful.
2006-09-26 01:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jealousy is growing because they don't know each other. Have them meet. You never know... they could become the best of friends. If you are not wanting them to meet then you are the one causing the jealousy and are being selfish. I know that sounds harsh but, if you think about it... You're leading both of them on. If you sincerely want both of them as friends then there is no reason that they can't meet. If you don't then you do need to make a decision. Good luck to you and God bless.
2006-09-26 02:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your "bro" has other feelings on his mind rather than being "just friends" and there is a little bit of jelousy going on. If he has never even met the guy, try talking to him about it more seriously and finding out his reasons.
good luck.
2006-09-26 01:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have is a guy who claims innocent relation with you but is secretly crushing on you he may respect your brother too much to make a move but he's definitly jealous.
2006-09-26 01:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurlie
this is hard for me to answer
because i know alot about you and i
am trying to figure out who this guy is
anyways i would just let everything play
out on its on or leave it alone
because you will always have your brother there
for you but you never know how long you
relationship is going to last well write back and
tell me what you think
kayla marie
2006-09-26 01:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by kayla marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell your 'bro' that your aloud to have other guy friends. Your not together and no-one can tell you what to do. Tell him straight! Good luck! x
2006-09-26 02:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your "bro" that hes your friend and that you hope he can deal with it because your not going to ditch him thats that and hope you can still be friends.
2006-09-26 01:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur lil bro he jealous. i think he like more than friends. talk to him n find out. the only way to know y he so jealous
2006-09-26 01:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by pitbull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋