Another help please!?

Question

I have tried contacting everyone who knows her, her consulor and dcotors and relatives. But they just say treat her well, feed her more. I moved in with her, as she can't take care of herself. I help her do the cooking, while she does the others. But she's acting like a spoiled girl now. Luckily, I'm someone who has loads of patience. I am like the mother right now. My best friend ( Ashley), is always throws food at my face like as if she is like 6th grade. Even though we are already grade 13! ( which is the lasy year of high school). If I cook something she does not like, she thorws the food at me. I once made her favourite food, milk pudding, and she through it right in my face. Do you guys have any suggestions that can help?

Answer 1

Tell her you have to go off somewhere for the weekend,
take a break, and come back and see if she's done anything
productive. She has to learn to be independent.

I thought 12th grade was the last year of high school..

Answer 2

Man I really hate when Parent F*** up rising a child, and this girl really have some stupid under educated F*** up parents. She is just full of anger and hates for her self. Your friend has very low self-esteems. What is the deal with her parents any way? Do she has any adult she can trust. Did she go though a break up? Was she living on her own and who is paying her bill?

You can’t cure anorexic without dealing with the underling emotional problem and you are not her mother just a good friend. Babying her won’t help. You need to give her some room to find her own way out. Your mom is right to give you a time line to get her act together. She will drag you down with her to where ever she is doing. Emotional problem like this has been long time working and I don’t know if there is more than one reason for her self-hate.

You said you are senior in high school, have you all done the SAT for college? If so how is she doing on her SAT? Do she has any plan for her future and is she unease about it.

However she just want to lose weight just ask her to eat right and go running, 15-20 minutes a day will take the weight off in no time but that is not going to deal with her angry she has been suppressing.

Best thing for you is for her is to hear her b*** about her life and listen to what is bothering her while you all go out for a walk or something. I don't think these kind of stuff help to talk on the phone. A FACE to Face talk is more real and helpful. she is lucky to have you. Good friend means everything in life.

Answer 3

Tell her you have to go off somewhere for the weekend,
take a break, and come back and see if she's done anything
productive. She has to learn to be independent

I agree with whoever wrote this. She has to learn one way or another, and this wouldnt be dithcing her. Just try it and see how it goes!

Answer 4

make another milk pudding then surprise her by throwing it on her face...

only then can she realize her mistakes

Answer 5

I'm sorry, who are you talking about?

Answer 6

Dunno what you're really talking about but be patient, and kind, but firm. Don't let them get the best of you.

Best Wishes

Answer 7

tell her to grow up

Answer 8

F.O.O.D.F.I.G.H.T!!! YAY!! :-)

Answer 9

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