she is a red head and very smart and i think she just likes me as a friend.
2006-09-26 01:46:27 · 13 answers · asked by chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be urself
2006-09-26 01:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well coming from a girls point of view u probably need 2 maake her feel that u can be more than a friend. Be spontanious. Show her that u r the guy 4 her. If she doesn't come running 4 u there is somethin wrong with her or it really isnt meant 2 be.
2006-09-26 09:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get someone to like you; either you get along and have things in common or you don't. Look at it this way: What if someone you knew were trying to get you to like them? If you already thought they were just ok, or really didn't like them, wouldn't their efforts at "making you like them" seem forced? Wouldn't it make you uncomfortable? I had a friend that wanted to be more than friends. Initially it was flattering; he was a nice guy and I did like him. But when he began to push, it made me uncomfortable. I told him, as gently as I could, that he was cool guy but I didn't have any romantic interest. He persisted, and it ruined our friendship.
If you're already friends, you could ask her how she feels about going out with you. That way you'd know for sure. If it worked out, then you'd both be happy. If not, then you'd both be left with a kind of awkwardness about your friendship. If you decide to ask her how she feels, be prepared one way or the other. You'll never know until you ask.
2006-09-26 08:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main thing is u have to be your slef around her take her out to eat or to a movie and tell her that u like her more than a friend and u would like to see if things would work out for u to as a couple.. good luck
2006-09-26 09:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r her friend , then ur position is not very pitiable. just act cool. be kind to her. show her some humour. have that attitude that she`ll b bound to come to u herself. wear cool clothes. try to look smarter. use cool language. show attitude on others in front of her especially.
2006-09-26 08:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to act cool. There is a good possibility that you will only be just her friend. If that's the case, don't stalk her.
2006-09-26 08:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by The Archeologist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, you've gone too far if you're already at the "He's just my friend" stage. There is hope though, just don't make it to "He's like my brother" status. Drop little hints that you like her more than a friend.
2006-09-26 08:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha... what makes you think so that she likes you as a friend? Why do you like her? What qualities does she have that make you likes her? Well, maybe can straight admit your feelings towards her and argh... meet her at the place where you all first started to meet at that place..well, i dunno.
2006-09-26 09:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by lovelyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get to know her butter then when theres a school dance go with her and if your not in school if there a party go with her
2006-09-26 08:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by justina l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly and get closer to her start smiling more often and tell her you like her...she will notice
2006-09-26 09:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by gabryelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just begin joking aroudn her and shell begin to notice
2006-09-26 08:49:08 · answer #11 · answered by its just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋