I am 29 weeks pregnant and I actually still WANT sex with my husband...but he doesn't! I want to all the time but he just says not right now.
Example: Last night we had sex in the shower...Well I didn't finish so I wanted more. When we climbed into bed I tryed and he said not right now.
I know I'm probaly not the HOTTEST right now being so pregnant...but I wannted to c-u-m too! It's almost like we have sex untill he finishes then he's done... What can I do to make him ant to make me?
*And for all the immature people...
NO HE IS NOT CHEATING!
2006-09-26 01:45:53 · 21 answers · asked by NaVy WiFeY 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, if he is normally caring about your "turn", maybe you should let him know that you're not gonna be in the mood as much after baby arrives, so would he please be a little more "generous"... Also, make sure you do at least once before sex... Have him do oral, use a vibe, whatever to get off before the actual sex starts. y'know? And if that isn't ok with him, he shouldn't get to either. Sounds like he's being selfish (and I'm a guy)... I personally found my wife being preggers was a turn on. Good luck, and seriously, if he doesn't want to be more giving, take matters into your own hands and let him do the same cuz sounds like he's being dense, y'know, thick, dumb....He should be more concerned, especially right now. hope it works out and baby's healthy... :-) Congrats!
2006-09-26 01:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the breast sucking thing, you just have to watch and see if it is causing contractions. Sometimes nipple stimulation can cause a release of oxytocin, the chemical that brings on contractions. It doesn't always, but it can. It is no big deal if it does, but keep track of the contractions and make sure you are not going into premature labor. Being pregnant causes a lot of women to be very sexually charged. Most of the time it really becomes apparent in the second trimester. This is totally normal and I personally like to think of it as G-d's gift to the man for putting up with all the first three months of puking their wives go though. In my personal opinion as long as it doesn't make you bleed or doesn't do any permanent damage, it is all good. Later you will not be able to do as much because it is harder to move in those ways, so enjoy it while you can!
2016-03-27 10:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought my wife was great when she was PG.It is a special time in our lives, especially for the women. We generally had it right up to the time she had to go to the hospital. I think there is something wrong with your husband if he does not care enough about you at this time in your life. I guess we never tried it in the shower when she was PG. It is a little late for us to think about that now, both of us are in our sixties. Good luck to you as a new mother.
2006-09-26 02:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know what's up with him, he's not asking. Regardless of age, it takes more to get it up again for each session; he could be tired, worried, turned off, or selfish. Maybe their is something physiologically more difficult for pregnant women to have an orgasm. The most important thing is that you keep a good attitude about yourself, lots of expectant couples have sex almost up to delivery. If you don't think of yourself as sexy, your partner isn't likely to either. Try to be more seductive. Let him know that the baby or you aren't going to be injured from sex. And, if necessary, let him know that you aren't done yet.
2006-09-26 01:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Scott K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out what is on his mind and address it - and don't be hurt if it has to do with the baby being there - that may just be the way he is, you may have to accept that, and it is only temporary. But tell him how much it would please you - be gentle, assume the best and ask him to be gentle as well.
It is pretty neat you still want to - many women do not at this point.
Blessings and prayers for a beautiful, healthy baby. ( and a great time of celebrating this child with Daddy).
2006-09-26 01:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! I'm an Air Force wifey! Sometimes when I'm not in the mood, I will ask for oral first. Get yours and then let him have his. Most guys like it from the back, so maybe put on some lingerie and get started. Sex is sex as far as men are concerned. If he's not in to it, withhold it for as long as you can, give in and then you'll both want it really bad.
2006-09-26 02:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel tell him its good for the baby for you to have an orgasm and his *** is very good for the baby too! it helps with develpment. If he still doesn't understand find you a decent sex store and get you a toy! Then don't give him any and show him you can fix ur self
2006-09-26 05:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by jharris8506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 36 weeks pregnant and I'm having the time of my life!
Just wanna share with you a trick...try a different position every 15 mins, don't let him go yet until you are ready!
P/S: You shouldn't let him out from the bathroom in the first place...
Good luck!
2006-09-26 02:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by robbiereigns 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does he know how to do oral stuff? Hes wussing out on you...I had sex till the day before my son was born and it even helps bring on labor.. Is he worried about harming the baby? tell him it wont hurt the child...good luck
2006-09-26 01:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It always freaked me out when my wife was pregnant. I mean, there's a baby there. It like having sex while she is holding the baby. It might be easier for him if he can't see your belly. Try different positions. You should ask him what his hangup is.
2006-09-26 01:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋