Right before I start it is just a question so no judgmental answers please. What would you do if your friend was telling you how fantastic her marriage was and you had the knowledge that her husband had been unfaithful several times. Would you tell her especially if she is irritating you about her fantastic marriage, implying yours isnt great.
2006-09-26 01:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by boo 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well if u were a good friend, then you wouldnt let things like that happen behind her back...
The only dilemma is HOW to tell her!
She may be angry and call you a liar and take out her frustration out on you
2006-09-26 01:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's my friend, I would TELL her.
That's what friends are for!
God, I don't understand how some people can't say anything because they feel it is none of their business.
Not directing this to you, but really!!
There are lots of people out there who keep quiet for that reason and I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT!!
If she is your friend, it is better she hear it from you than find out for herself only to discover you knew all along or even worse, never find out at all!!
She may not believe you, or she may hate you for a while, who knows - but at least you will have done something right.
BTW - How is it you know her husband is cheating?
Are you friends with her husband as well?
Either her husband is very open about it or your friend is in complete denial.
How is it you can know but she doesn't?
2006-09-26 08:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sixth_Sense 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
o thats a hard one! id really want to tell her because shes my friend but not because of jealousy! cuz if i didnt tell her and she found out i knew she may fall out with me!
friendship is more important than jealousy!
2006-09-26 08:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by jenzi_e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are caught between a rock & a hard place. Whatever you do, don't do it to score points off her
2006-09-26 08:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Pretorian 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she`s asking for your help?
2006-09-26 08:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell her. id doubt she'd believe it anyway, she seems delusional. well maybe tell her if you can do it indirectly, like get someone else to tell her.
2006-09-26 08:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't be able to hurt her like that
2006-09-26 08:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. I would want to know.
2006-09-26 08:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't do that.!
2006-09-26 14:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋