at times i walk up to friends when they were laughing then they stop and at times i know they talk about me behind my back i dont know why i'v done nothing to them
2006-09-26 00:23:09 · 45 answers · asked by blackyjess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People can be cruel sometimes. Im sorry that you feel this way though. There are people out there who love you and would die for you, you just have to keep them in mind and remember them. If you have done nothing to them, then they are in the wrong and they are the ones missing out. I think you should go find new friends who will care for you. Good luck.
2006-09-26 00:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that happens to everyone at some point in their life. Just confront all of them at the same time if they say that they weren't ,then make up something about you something that they all would be talking or laughing about. Tell just 1 of your friends and tell her not to tell anyone then the next night ask one of your other friends if she's heard what's been going on if she knows that means that they've been talking about you behind your back. SO DITCH THEM and get new friends.
2006-09-26 00:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by ginessaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine how cliched this is gonna sound but, life is full of twists and turns, in your life you are going to find people who will hate you and people who will love you. Don't ever change to try and impress your friends, deny who you are and you shall cease to exist. If your friends don't like you then to hell with them, you don't need anyone to tell you what to be and you sure as hell don't need to take any of the BS that they sling at you. The most important thing in life is to live healthy and happy, and that could very well mean leaving your idiot friends who treat you badly. You are only human, you are bound to have SOME flaws, but by no means are you less then anyone else. Everyone doesn't hate you, but you can bet your bottom dollar that more then a handful of people love you!
2006-09-26 00:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me as if they aint your real friends and your parronoia is correct. dumb kids, thats all they are. They think there top and bad, but really, they gotta cus other people to make themselves feel better. If they were "nice" people, then they wouldnt make you feel that way. you wouldnt be on here now asking that question. So ask yourself, why do you want to hang around with people like that, you dont do you!>?(hopenot) so dont. move on, when they come up to you and ask you why, simply say, "what do you think, im dumb, that i cant hear things, that i cant see things. PLEASE! " then walk away. show them you DO NOT NEED THEM and that you DONT CARE whether they your "friend" or not.
What makes them more special than you>? nothing, so dont give them your power, do not suck up to them, do not do anything for them, do things for yourself.
WHEN i went to college. i stopped talking to my socalled "mates", but it was the loniest thing, but the BEST thingi coulda done. People around me knew they would take the piss outta me, so automataicly them people thought i was a pri*k and took thepiss too, but when i hanged around by myself and did my work, and took no sh!t of no one, people had respect for me.
and i tell you something now, YOU WOULD RATHER BE RESPECTED THAN LIKED. think about it.
do your thing and keep it real man, when you get older you will cringe at the moments when you werent real!!
to be intelligant, is a very lonely place. get used to it.
gudluck. and takecare. **) X
2006-09-26 00:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, partically a big percentage of the time when we think people are talking about us or that people hate us, is all in our minds. I think you should be open with your friends and tell them how you feel and ask them if they are mad at you for something.. you would never know until you ask and find out. communication in any realtionship is very important. So ask them whats up. it might not end up being what you think
2006-09-26 00:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think that's BAD? Listen to my story. I got these two friends. I'll name them N and C here. Every time when C back stabs me to N when I'm not around, N would come up to me later and tell me what C said about me. When N back stabs about me to C, C would come to me later and tell me all the stuff N said about me. They were be best friends. Well, they're still my friends, but I don't trust any of them now.
2006-09-26 01:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by No-one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't hate U.
Sometimes people R thoughtless & it sounds like these friends R not respecting UR feelings.
Time 2 put them all straight & tell them they're hurting U.
They'll probably accuse U of being Paranoid, stand firm & tell them 2 grow-up.
B strong & get it all off UR chest.
Good luck.
:)
2006-09-26 00:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i know the feeling weve all been through that. its just a phase.... first of all the girls that laugh behind ur bak are probably jealous and hey... there not friends. friends dont do that... talk to them about it and see what answer they give. you have to work out wot peeps you can trust and which not...
2006-09-26 00:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by TMFULP. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you attractive? Do you have a huge pimple on your nose? maybe a wart? how about a mole? Usually, that's the way it goes. It seems that when people are laughing at someone else, something is wrong, physically, with the target.
2006-09-26 00:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by snafu1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like they all do. Some people are put on this earth to be the subject of derision and hatred. You sound a bit pathetic too and maybe..just maybe..you could do with losing a few pounds.
2006-09-26 00:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋