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Why?bcoz i have no friends in life.If you become my friend then you can save me

2006-09-26 00:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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You will NOT find friends on the computer.
Turn off the computer and go outside. Go to places where people hang out. The library, park etc. You will meet people there. Volunteer your services to others less fortunate than you. You are too self absorbed and think the world centers around you. Make the world center around others and you will be a much happier person.

As far as bringing 'the curtain down'----take it down and I would suggest you just take it to the cleaners and get it aired out and cleaned---then put it back up. It just needs the moths shaken out and the bad smell take out.. Everything is fine.

With things so computerized and 'mobile' people lose touch with other people. Get off of the computer and talk to 'real' people.

2006-09-26 00:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1 0

Save yourself… Be your own friend !!!

Just as a matter of interest…
Do you get a kick out of people feeling sorry for you?
Well, here’s the bad news… I don’t feel sorry for you at all…
It sounds to me like you do that enough for yourself !!!

This is the sixth question in which you have mentioned committing suicide…
and you expect people to be your friend?
What sort of a friend would you be???
No offence meant, but I need 'live' friends… not dead ones !!!
I have already lost four close friends to suicide, and I’m not in any rush to lose any more the same way.

If you want friends… how about you start, by being one !
You are not doing anybody any favours by talking about putting an end to your life.
If you want people to care about you… start caring about yourself…
If you don’t like the way your life is… Change the way you live!
We all have problems… We learn to deal with them…
How about you start doing the same !!!

I wrote this poem after one of my close friends committed suicide…
Have a read of it…. It is called “Death takes all hope away !”

My friend...
I heard the news today,
of how your life had passed away.
Had you forgotten how when there is life, there is hope.
And how 'death' takes all hope away!

The news of your death really shocked me.
I thought I knew you so well.
Believing I was someone you could talk to
whenever you needed a friend.

Why couldn't you tell me what was troubling you?
You know I would have tried to help.
Surely there was something we could have done...
'Together' we could have found 'hope'.
Now you are dead, there is nothing we can do,
because 'death' takes all hope away!

Here I am at your funeral...
Your family and friends are all here.
Do you see all the tears and the sadness?
Do you feel all the grief and the pain?
The tragic loss of a loved one...
The sad passing of a friend.
The tragic way you ended your life,
will haunt us till the end!

Why did you do it, my friend...
bring your life to such a tragic end?
I know at times it can be so hard
to make it through each day.
But with every new day comes a glimmer of hope
that good times are coming our way!

I know I should thank you for the good times we shared...
and thank you for being my friend.
I'm not feeling too thankful at the moment though,
because my friend threw his life away!

What of the future we could have shared?
What of the loved ones you left behind?
What gave you the right to scar us so bad,
and to leave us such terrible pain?

I'm sure you had your reasons
for cutting your life so short...
but what my friend, were your reasons,
for hurting us so bad?

We will make it through each passing day,
taking each one as it comes.
Never really knowing what tomorrow may bring,
but trusting in our family and friends.

If not each other,
then what do we have?
What is 'life'
if we are left alone?
We know how 'death' takes all hope away,
but 'together' we can live with hope.

So my friend, I bid you farewell.
I trust you have found your peace.
Safe in the hands of your maker,
and the hearts of your loved-ones and friends.

We will treasure the fond memories we have of you.
Being grateful for the good times we shared.
Knowing there was so much more we could have shared,
had 'death' not taken your life away!

Goodbye my friend...
Rest in Peace!

2006-09-26 07:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0 0

,There is always some one who is willing to help you, make your decision and give it a go , your life 6 months down the road could be very different than it is now you owe it to yourself and the people who care about you to at least have a go we are all here for a purpose . There are a lot of people in your situation who fail and fail again ,we all fail at things in life (' so what ) we all have to keep trying don't we.

2006-09-26 07:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by mummapink 2 · 0 0

Are you saying you will take your own life? For lack of friends? First you need to speak w/your closest family member, pastor or mental health provider. Then realize that you have to be your own best friend to understand yourself and then you can extend your friendship to others.

2006-09-26 07:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by sideways 7 · 0 0

No you should not. Just because things are bad now doesn't mean that they won't get better. You need to always look for the better, even when everything else seems to go to he** in a hand basket.

2006-09-26 07:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, you don't need friends to be happy. Don't rely on other people to prove your self-worth.
NO - you should NOT bring the curtain down.

2006-09-26 07:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by StephanieW 2 · 0 0

wat curtain are you talkin friends are important but so are family n belivein your self try settin small goals everyday it helps to keep your mind active and believe or not you will make friends and your old friends wanna start hangin out again trust me ive taking my personal curtain down 2 years ago best thing ever

2006-09-26 07:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by mmm_holdens 1 · 0 0

oh come now, lets not look for sympathy. there is a whole world out there, go and enjoy it. you will be amazed at how much fun you can have.

2006-09-26 07:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by mrcuster53 1 · 0 0

Never.! I Am Also Here For You.

2006-09-26 07:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by thegidget2 3 · 0 0

dont beat urself up i dont have many friends either! im there 4 u

2006-09-26 07:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by junior_morrow 2 · 0 0

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