Could your breast size cause you depression?

Question

My breasts have always been small. now they are getting even smaller cause i am losing weight (because i need to). I hate their size to the extent that i am depressed (over 2 years now). could you please tell me what to do, do you have any suggestions, or anything that would make me feel better...i am really depressed, and my hubby just thinks i am being silly although i know that he would rather i was bigger but he is just being nice

Answer 1

I believe that your breast size could cause you depression, but I don't think that it should. If you are saying that you are losing weight because you need to, then you being healthy and ensuring you will be there for your husband probably makes him happier than if you had large breasts. I have dated people with all size breasts and even though large ones catch my eye, that does not mean i like or dislike someone because of the size of their breasts. Do you like your man because of the size of his package? I would hope not, because you cannot ask more of your spouse than the way that you, yourself act. You need to be happy with what you have as long as you are healthy. Size only matters for TV and magazines, not in real life.
GOOD LUCK and FEEL BETTER I am sure you are fine.

Answer 2

He probably isn't just being nice you know.More than likely he is just telling the literal truth as he sees it. Men are FAR less likely than women to say things 'to be nice'. If your husband thinks you look fine then just be glad. Small breasts are much better, think, you are comfortable, you can wear any style of top and you don't have to pay shitloads for huge structural engineer bras.

But honestly, if a man says he thinks you look good, it means he thinks you look good. Men just don't DO hidden meanings. Trust your husband and relax. And if you still feel depressed, maybe you should see a dr for depression. Try to focus on the good things are about yourself, I'm sure there are lots. Make a little scrapbook of great things about you and get it out when you feel down.

Answer 3

Try not to get down about it, nobody is ever happy with the way they look.
If you are loosing weight, then your breasts may look more in proportion to the rest of you once you have reached your target weight?
Padded bra's are great for when your are going out, they give everything a boost, your boobs your ego and your husband!!
Having bigger boobs isn't all it's cracked up to be either, when you have big boobs, men talk to them, not you. You can't wear stripes, spots, turtle necks, round necks, no sleeves, capped sleeves as they make your boobs look as if they start from your waist!!!
If in a few months once you've lost your weight and are still not happy, is surgery completely out of the question?? Your mental health is just as important as your physical health.
xx

Answer 4

It can cause depression. Like with me. And to me the most frustrating feeling is that it can be done, a larger size. But I am perfectly healthy, why would I let myself cut open and fill me up with plastic? I won't be happy with fake boobs either. Cause they are not mine. So nothing to do than to get over it. Which is hard, but I want to stay real. I just wish there were more guys supportive in that choice. But it is hard. If you don't mind surgery that could help you.

Answer 5

If your breast size is causing you so much depression go see a doctor and do something about it. It is your body not your husbands and if you are unhappy fix it. I am a small breasted woman but I have never worried about it. The strange thing is I have a sister with D cup boobs and I am lucky if I am a B more likely an A. Now that my sister and I are older I am still slim and my boobs dont sag ( I always say they have nowhere to go) but my sisters boobs are now warming her belly button. But just because small boobs doesnt bother me that doesnt mean that it shouldnt bother you. Dont be unhappy DO SOMETHING!

Answer 6

I was depressed because I was so small in jr. high. As time went on, I became happy being small as I didn't have to wear a bra and I could sleep on my stomach. Since having children, they've grown somewhat. And now, even after 4 kids, they are small, still perky (despite my age) and I would never want them any bigger. You need to accept what you have and not assume your husband wants you to be different. Mature men really don't care - in fact, most prefer smaller.

Answer 7

yes they can it is said that women who have a bigger breasts feel more confident enough than the one whose are not. the only better way is to go for some self massaging or probably your hubby could help you on this. Enjoy your life and have sex with your life partner at least once a week.

Answer 8

No way!

Breast size can never cause deppression, it depends on the girl.
Think positive. So what if it is small? Who would care? Many people have small breasts....I Know a lot! and they just go on with their life happily.

And your hubby loves you so much. I say because I know.

My suggestion for you? Just don't think about it.

Beauty inside is better than beauty outside.

Answer 9

I guess my best advice is to try your hardest to be happy with what you have. Confidence can hide anything you see as a flaw. If your confident with your body, it shows and radiates a certain beauty because you're not hung up on your looks. I think many women aren't happy with what they have whether it be being "too small" or "too big." Just be happy that you're healthy. If you ever need anyone to talk to besides your hubby... message me.

Answer 10

it's alright. it's not only you who has that problem. there are many products now in the net that guarantees bigger breasts and no side effects. i saw one at home tv shopping. try it. and it's also not that good also if you have large breasts. sometimes you get more depressed because large breasts attract bad people. you might even get to trouble like phornography or sumthin'...